Category Archives: Meet Cute

If she loves you, then she’ll be a pain in the @ss!

Appearances can be deceiving. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Meet Cute, Moral Agency, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 42 Comments

The Meet Cute Experience as a Selection Model

The Meet Cute is an authentic selection model fitting the Tingly Respect (Headship) structure. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Faith Community, Female Power, Headship and Patriarchy, Indicators of Interest, Love, Meet Cute, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Strategy, The Power of God | 15 Comments

Blue Pill Arrogance of the 80s

80’s dating as portrayed in films of the era. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Clothing, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Female Power, Feminism, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Male Power, Media, Meet Cute, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purity Culture, Relationships, Reviews, Satire, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Socio-Economic Class Studies, Vetting Women | 35 Comments

Moral Guidance Based Feedback vs. Sexual Attention

Both are necessary for redemption and sanctification (in marriage). Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Boundaries, Charisma, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Indicators of Interest, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 11 Comments

Summary of the Meet Cute Phenomenon

The Meet Cute is spontaneous, subjective and contextual. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Indicators of Interest, Love, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, The Power of God | 120 Comments

The Meet Cute is not about “women chasing men”

A response to Liz’s comment using RedPillBoomer’s story as an example. Continue reading

Posted in Answered Prayers, Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Indicators of Interest, Joy, Love, Male Power, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Sexual Authority, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 41 Comments

The Meet Cute as a Positive Feedback Loop

What goes around, comes around, for better or for worse. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Forgiveness, Headship and Patriarchy, Introspection, Male Power, Meet Cute, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Persuasion, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Vetting Women | 116 Comments

A Volitional Model of Cascade Courtship

Jack’s theory about how the MMP is supposed to be. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 34 Comments