Category Archives: Discipline

The practice of training ones self or others to conform to a desired code of behavior, often in spite of any moods, attitudes or emotions that may lead to the contrary.

Rights and Responsibilities within Marriage

The goal is to please God, not to avoid suffering. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Glory, God's Concept of Justice, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Trust | 3 Comments

2021 Winter Hibernation

Stay strong and Merry Christmas! Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Charisma, Conflict Management, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Faith Community, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Manosphere, Moral Agency, Music, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Control, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust | 16 Comments

2 Old Farts Talking About Their Wives

More thoughts on wife selection and wife moulding. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 16 Comments

Not Trusting women is Deep Inner Game

The proper management of Trust is the central pillar of holding Frame. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Respect, Self-Control, SMV/MMV, Trust | 27 Comments

Social Authenticity Proof: Giving Women Attention

Giving women the right kind of attention is a social lubricant. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Charisma, Confidence, Cultural Differences, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Education, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Legalism, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, The Power of God | 16 Comments

Deti’s Advice to Underqualified Men

Identify your sphere of influence and be selective. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Vetting Women | 47 Comments

Developing Masculinity

Identify what it is you need to step up in your life. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship | 26 Comments

Moral Guidance Based Feedback vs. Sexual Attention

Both are necessary for redemption and sanctification (in marriage). Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Boundaries, Charisma, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 3 Comments

The Meet Cute as a Positive Feedback Loop

What goes around, comes around, for better or for worse. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Forgiveness, Headship and Patriarchy, Influence, Introspection, Male Power, Meet Cute, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Persuasion, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Vetting Women | 114 Comments

A Volitional Model of Cascade Courtship

Jack’s theory about how the MMP is supposed to be. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 29 Comments