Category Archives: Strategy

Why is premarital sex a sin?

The sexual use of our bodies must honor and glorify God, and this cannot happen outside marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Female Power, Feminism, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | Tagged , , , , , | 28 Comments

Wimmin at the Well

Missionary dating is not what you might think. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Influence, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , | 43 Comments

How to Develop an Attitude of Detachment

Maintaining Frame is the same as setting Socio-Emotional Boundaries. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Confidence, Conserving Power, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , , | 12 Comments

The Dominatrix Conversation

A dominatrix teaches power hungry women how to talk down to men. Continue reading

Posted in Culture Wars, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Feminism, Holding Frame, Models of Failure, Power, Psychology, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 10 Comments

Some like it Hot

Different men get different responses from different women. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Game Theory, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 10 Comments

Having an Attractive Attitude in Serving

Having the right attitude goes a long way towards becoming a recipient of a blessing. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Faith Community, Game Theory, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | Tagged , , , | 10 Comments

Being Attractive in Service

What makes you attractive is who you are, not what you do. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Game Theory, Glory, Influence, Joy, Love, Male Power, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , , , | 14 Comments

Looking at the Essentials

Young people need to think on two (or more) planes when selecting a mate. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged | 50 Comments

Countersink

Running it into the ground to set a new foundation. Continue reading

Posted in Churchianity, Culture Wars, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Influence, Leadership, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Perseverance, Relationships, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , | 23 Comments

Only God can grant a successful marriage

How do some people achieve a blessed marriage, while others do not?  Maybe God might have something to do with it. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Introspection, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Perseverance, Relationships, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , | 15 Comments