Category Archives: Strategy

The Moral Agency of Dogs

You have total responsibility and limited control.  It’s a labor of love. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Animal Kingdom, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Parenting, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Science, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 97 Comments

Artisanal Toad on Women’s Agency

Virgins DO NOT have moral agency. Non-virgins DO, under conditions. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Arranged Marriage, Attraction, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Divorce, Ethical Systems, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Near East, Organization and Structure, Paradigms of Religion, Parenting, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Philosophy, Polysexuality, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 186 Comments

It’s her choice whether or not to submit.

The choices are His way to Headship or the highway to ħɘll. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Charisma, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Determination, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God | 80 Comments

Very few women can be Molded.

Limits to Wife Moulding. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Charisma, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, Teaching, Vetting Women | 41 Comments

Game is an invitation to Humility

…and Humility leads to Validation. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Manosphere, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 26 Comments

Name it to Change it!

Identifying a transgression poses an implied demand for her to change it. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communication Styles, Communications, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Generational Curses, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Persuasion, Power, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 20 Comments

Riding the Raging Rivulet

Eliminate static to improve transmission. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Boundaries, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Persuasion, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sex, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God | 16 Comments

Erotic Blueprints and Personality

Why is finding sexual compatibility so frustrating? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Erotic Blueprints, Female Power, Game, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Personality Types, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 22 Comments

Sexy

What makes a woman sexy? Is it incompatible with faith and humility? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Autopilot, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Divorce, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Generational Curses, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Online Personas, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Domain, Personality Types, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 26 Comments

Restoring Respect

For most men, it begins with purpose. Continue reading

Posted in Archetypes, Charisma, Competence / Competition, Confidence, Culture Wars, Ethical Systems, Faux-Masculinity, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Personality Types, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Respect, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Strategy | 70 Comments