Category Archives: Game Theory

Women Crave Male Attention

Women need attention like men need sex. Continue reading

Posted in Communications, Confidence, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, India, Inner Game, Male Power, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Concept, Strategy | 37 Comments

The Recipe for a Meet Cute

Context Matters! Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Glory, Holding Frame, IOI's, Love, Male Power, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 16 Comments

The Feminine Christian Marriage Quadrilemma

She wants to have her cake, crumpets, and pie a la mode, and eat them too! Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Hamsterbation, Hypergamy, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Solipsism | 26 Comments

Answers to the Exit Questions for the Series on Masculinity

Explicit answers to the questions that were brought up earlier posts. Continue reading

Posted in Authenticity, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 116 Comments

Women Rely on a Man’s Frame for Redemptive Introspection

A woman needs a man like the church needs Christ. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 47 Comments

Redefining Manhood as Boyish Immaturity

Male and Female perspectives on masculinity. Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Disorders, Female Power, Feminism, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Influence, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Psychology, Relationships, Respect, Reviews, Science, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Vetting Women | 39 Comments

Taking Headship by Force

This post examines a unique hybrid option for approaching the SMP/MMP. Continue reading

Posted in Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Culture Wars, Determination, Discipline, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Power, Purpose, Running the Gauntlet, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 111 Comments

Rules and Trust

Rules and Trust are somewhat opposed. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Legalism, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 100 Comments

Ethical Issues Surrounding the Christian Conundrum

How does preselection, prioritizing sex, and fantasy affect the mating process? Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Influence, Introspection, Male Power, Manosphere, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV | 66 Comments

Strategies for the Iterated Prisoners’ Dilemma

A fresh look at “Christian Game” as a potentially winning arrangement. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Decision Making, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Game, Game Theory, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Strategy | 50 Comments