Category Archives: Authenticity

Infidelity is anything short of fidelity.

Being faithful is not about avoiding sin, but in Glorifying the Lord. Embracing God’s archetype of marriage is one important way to do this. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOCs, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 4 Comments

Tracking Raw Sex Performance on a Spread Sheet

No F earns an F. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Hamsterbation, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Male Power, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Strategy, The Power of God | 18 Comments

Is Married Dread Game a transgression of marital vows?

Know thine adversary! Is it your self? Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Complementarianism, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God | 32 Comments

The Mystery of Marriage

Father Spyridon offers insights to the beauty and gravity of marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Authenticity, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Faith Community, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, International, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Orthodoxy, Philosophy, Protestantism, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Stewardship, The Power of God | 30 Comments

Social Authenticity Proof: Giving Women Attention

Giving women the right kind of attention is a social lubricant. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Charisma, Confidence, Cultural Differences, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Education, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Legalism, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, The Power of God | 16 Comments

Deti’s Advice to Underqualified Men

Identify your sphere of influence and be selective. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Vetting Women | 47 Comments

Kumbaya

Translation: “Come by me (my Lord)” Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Authenticity, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Faith Community, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Holding Frame, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Music, Purpose, Sanctification & Defilement, Society, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 5 Comments

Summary of the Meet Cute Phenomenon

The Meet Cute is spontaneous, subjective and contextual. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, IOI's, Love, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, The Power of God | 119 Comments

The Meet Cute is not about “women chasing men”

A response to Liz’s comment using RedPillBoomer’s story as an example. Continue reading

Posted in Answered Prayers, Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, IOI's, Joy, Love, Male Power, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Sexual Authority, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 40 Comments

It’s all about her Ego

…not comfort, control, love, security, and not even hypergamy nor Tingles. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conserving Power, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Strategy, Vetting Women | 15 Comments