Category Archives: Desire, Passion

Ethical Issues Surrounding the Christian Conundrum

How does preselection, prioritizing sex, and fantasy affect the mating process? Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Influence, Introspection, Male Power, Manosphere, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV | 64 Comments

The Christian Conundrum

Caught between Scylla and Charybdis. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Forgiveness, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Hamsterbation, Handling Rejection, Hypergamy, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Strategy, Vetting Women | 170 Comments

The Christian Marriage Dilemma

Marrying a Christian woman won’t necessarily give you a Christian marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Racial Relations, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, Taiwan, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 112 Comments

The Sexual Market IS the Marriage Market

Young people must run the gauntlet of the SMP just to get into the MMP! Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Feminism, Game Theory, Hypergamy, Male Power, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Strategy | 129 Comments

The Centrality of Sex in Western Culture

SEX, above all else! Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Female Power, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Vetting Women | 193 Comments

Something’s not right… (about Sexual Authority)

“Falling in love” with her places you at her behest. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Complementarianism, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | 126 Comments

Redemption and Sexual Healing

It depends on whether we think sex is dirty or holy Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Building Wealth, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 40 Comments

Zizek – Everyday Sexuality

Fantasy and frustration is the mark of the madness. Continue reading

Posted in Consent, Culture Wars, Desire, Desire, Passion, Female Power, Feminism, Food, Handling Rejection, Homosexuality, MGTOW, Incels, Politics, Power, Psychology, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Solipsism | 4 Comments

“Flipping the Switch” is God’s Gatekeeping, not her Tingle management

Submission to sexual authority is subordinant to God’s prerogatives. Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Consent, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discipline, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 30 Comments

The Meet Cute Phenomenon (Scott’s Axiom)

The Meet Cute phenomenon is an organic form of Headship! Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Headship and Patriarchy, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Psychology, Relationships, Sexual Authority, The Power of God | 160 Comments