Category Archives: Attraction

The Lie of Romantic Love

How should a man show love to a woman? Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Chivalry, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Ethical Systems, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Society, Sphere of Influence | 9 Comments

Christian Detachment

Not carelessness, but conviction. Readership: AllTheme: Consolidating MasculinityLength: 1,700 wordsReading Time: 9 minutes Men’s Inherent Gynocentrism It has often been said that “Women are the gatekeepers of sex.” It would be better for us to regard the phenomenon behind this axiom with a little … Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God | 23 Comments

How to Assume the Missionary Position

Are you on a mission for God, or for Gynocentrism? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sex, Society, The Power of God | 51 Comments

SMP Paradigms Compared

Stay on target… Stay on target… Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Choosing A Profession, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 66 Comments

Ambition

A Man’s Ambition and his relationship with God are two entirely different things. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Authenticity, Charisma, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Confidence, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Paradigms of Religion, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Personality Types, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Therapeutic Moralistic Deism | 8 Comments

Complacency

Complacent energy kills all attraction. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Autopilot, Desire, Discipline, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 14 Comments

Artisanal Toad on Women’s Agency

Virgins DO NOT have moral agency. Non-virgins DO, under conditions. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Arranged Marriage, Attraction, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Divorce, Ethical Systems, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Near East, Organization and Structure, Paradigms of Religion, Parenting, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Philosophy, Polysexuality, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 200 Comments

Sharkly on Women’s Agency

Female moral agency is motivated by masculine authority and is destroyed by Feminist equality. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Convergence, Culture Wars, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Elite Cultural Influences, Female Evo-Psych, Feminism, Generational Curses, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Honor, Hypergamy, Intersexual Dynamics, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Masculine Disciplines, Media, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Paradigms of Religion, Politics, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God | 111 Comments

Very few women can be Molded.

Limits to Wife Moulding. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Charisma, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, Teaching, Vetting Women | 43 Comments

Game is an invitation to Humility

…and Humility leads to Validation. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Manosphere, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 27 Comments