Category Archives: Female Power

Infidelity is anything short of fidelity.

Being faithful is not about avoiding sin, but in Glorifying the Lord. Embracing God’s archetype of marriage is one important way to do this. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOCs, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 4 Comments

Is Married Dread Game a transgression of marital vows?

Know thine adversary! Is it your self? Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Complementarianism, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God | 32 Comments

Wives reap what they sow

The opposite of submission is not necessarily rebellion, but a heart that is miserly with affection and grace. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Disorders, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Glory, God's Concept of Justice, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Love, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Solipsism, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 35 Comments

The Importance of Biblical Marriage

Headship is routinely ignored. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Building Wealth, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Disorders, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Trust, Zeitgeist Reports | 11 Comments

No More Mrs. Hot Mess!

Women’s Version of the Covert Contract. Continue reading

Posted in Answered Prayers, Attitude, Boundaries, Communications, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 115 Comments

The Meet Cute is not about “women chasing men”

A response to Liz’s comment using RedPillBoomer’s story as an example. Continue reading

Posted in Answered Prayers, Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, IOI's, Joy, Love, Male Power, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Sexual Authority, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 40 Comments

The Meet Cute as a Positive Feedback Loop

What goes around, comes around, for better or for worse. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Forgiveness, Headship and Patriarchy, Influence, Introspection, Male Power, Meet Cute, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Persuasion, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Vetting Women | 114 Comments

A Volitional Model of Cascade Courtship

Jack’s theory about how the MMP is supposed to be. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 29 Comments

It’s all about her Ego

…not comfort, control, love, security, and not even hypergamy nor Tingles. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conserving Power, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Strategy, Vetting Women | 15 Comments

Women have sex to influence men

A confirmation from a PUA’s perspective. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 98 Comments