Category Archives: Relationships

The best enema of all

A wife who refuses anal sex is only marginally better than a wife who refuses sex altogether. Continue reading

Posted in Desire, Passion, Homosexuality, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement | Tagged | 7 Comments

Wimmin at the Well

Missionary dating is not what you might think. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Influence, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , | 43 Comments

How to Develop an Attitude of Detachment

Maintaining Frame is the same as setting Socio-Emotional Boundaries. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Confidence, Conserving Power, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , , | 9 Comments

Some like it Hot

Different men get different responses from different women. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Game Theory, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 10 Comments

Having an Attractive Attitude in Serving

Having the right attitude goes a long way towards becoming a recipient of a blessing. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Faith Community, Game Theory, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | Tagged , , , | 9 Comments

Looking at the Essentials

Young people need to think on two (or more) planes when selecting a mate. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged | 49 Comments

Der Breedergroomer’s Fahrvergnugen

A satirical examination of the word origins of bride and groom. Continue reading

Posted in Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Male Power, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Relationships, Satire, Self-Concept | Tagged , , | 7 Comments

Countersink

Running it into the ground to set a new foundation. Continue reading

Posted in Churchianity, Culture Wars, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Influence, Leadership, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Perseverance, Relationships, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , | 23 Comments

Only God can grant a successful marriage

How do some people achieve a blessed marriage, while others do not?  Maybe God might have something to do with it. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Introspection, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Perseverance, Relationships, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , | 15 Comments

We Marry Our Own Cross

The frustration of marital incompatibility is intended to produce Christ in us. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Enduring Suffering, Holding Frame, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, The Power of God | Tagged , | 7 Comments