Category Archives: Confidence

Ethical Issues Surrounding the Christian Conundrum

How does preselection, prioritizing sex, and fantasy affect the mating process? Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Influence, Introspection, Male Power, Manosphere, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV | 64 Comments

What would the world be like if everyone was Red Pilled?

The Red Pill is fraught with “solutions” that are frankly unrealistic on a larger scale. Continue reading

Posted in Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Education, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Influence, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 185 Comments

The Christian Marriage Dilemma

Marrying a Christian woman won’t necessarily give you a Christian marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Racial Relations, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, Taiwan, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 112 Comments

Parental Divorce Ruins Daughters’ Future Marital Commitment and Confidence

Another red flag: If her parents are divorced. Continue reading

Posted in Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Generational Curses, Influence, Models of Failure, Psychology, Relationships, Reviews, Science, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 158 Comments

Sexual competition continues after marriage

Married couples have a duty to remain the apple of the other’s eye. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Female Power, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 120 Comments

Revealing the motives behind unconcealed sex and nakedness

Did you ever wonder why some couples like to get it on in the park? A better question is, why doesn’t everyone? Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Clothing, Collective Strength, Confidence, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Fundamental Frame, Internet Dating Sites, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Psychology, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority | 5 Comments

The Motivation of Desire

Submitting to Authority brings awareness and maturity. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Education, Female Power, Headship and Patriarchy, Influence, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 9 Comments

Is the Christian Red Pill a Black Pill?

A comparison of the Red Pill, the Christian Red Pill, and the Black Pill. Continue reading

Posted in Charisma, Churchianity, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Power, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God | 21 Comments

The Red Pill and Blue Pill as Paradigms of Sanctification and Defilement (with a mathematical analogy)

Noyce goys are defiled by the BP mindset, but they carry the notion that they’re ‘sanctified’! Continue reading

Posted in Authenticity, Building Wealth, Charisma, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Complementarianism, Confidence, Convergence, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Disorders, Divorce, Education, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Game Theory, Hamsterbation, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Perseverance, Psychology, Purpose, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Strategy, The Power of God | 24 Comments

How to Develop an Attitude of Detachment

Maintaining Frame is the same as setting Socio-Emotional Boundaries. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Confidence, Conserving Power, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , , | 15 Comments