Category Archives: Confidence

Game is an invitation to Humility

…and Humility leads to Validation. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Manosphere, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 26 Comments

Validation is about Losing Self-Control

Humility happens when the Lady’s Libido Lights Up. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Autopilot, Charisma, Churchianity, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Passion, Erotic Blueprints, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Mysticism, Personal Domain, Power, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Taiwan, The Power of God, Trust | 19 Comments

What does a Proverbs 31 relationship look like?

Case studies towards examining the cause. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Archetypes, Attitude, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communications, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Education, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Taiwan, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 37 Comments

Restoring Respect

For most men, it begins with purpose. Continue reading

Posted in Archetypes, Charisma, Competence / Competition, Confidence, Culture Wars, Ethical Systems, Faux-Masculinity, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Personality Types, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Respect, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Strategy | 70 Comments

Sitting on the Fence

Which way do we fall? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Calculated Risk Taking, Charisma, Collective Strength, Communication Styles, Communications, Competence / Competition, Confidence, Conflict Management, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Faith Community, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, God's Concept of Justice, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Online Personas, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Prayer, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Trust | 43 Comments

Black Pill Competition

Competition can either build a man up or bring him down. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Calculated Risk Taking, Charisma, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Confidence, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Manosphere, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Strategy, The Power of God, Trust | 51 Comments

The Ever Looming Black Pill

Identifying one’s fear and facing it. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Authenticity, Calculated Risk Taking, Confidence, Conserving Power, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discipline, Elite Cultural Influences, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Introspection, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, MGTOW, Incels, Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 36 Comments

Bastards

A modern revised understanding of the concept. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Charisma, Child Development, Collective Strength, Confidence, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, God's Concept of Justice, Headship and Patriarchy, Identity, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Parenting, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Single Parents, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God, Zeitgeist Reports | 3 Comments

The Delusion of the Good

It’s easier to have the faux faith of a pharisee when you believe the pretty lies. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Attraction, Authenticity, Calculated Risk Taking, Chivalry, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faux-Masculinity, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Legalism, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Vetting Women | 28 Comments

Shaking the dust off your shoes

When it’s clear that you can’t improve the situation, it’s time to walk. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Charisma, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Confidence, Conflict Management, Convergence, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Faith Community, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, God's Concept of Justice, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust | 24 Comments