Category Archives: Desire

On Choosing a Wife Wisely

Young Men, Forsake the Love of Dionysus.  Embrace the Love of Headship! Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Archetypes, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Erotic Blueprints, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 17 Comments

Is Sexual Experience a Stepping Stone to Faith?

Are chyx a score, a snare, or a step? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Calculated Risk Taking, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Prayer, Purpose, Relationships, Rites of Passage, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Sex, Strategy, The Power of God | 94 Comments

P0rn is Faux Validation

It looks the same, feels the same, but it’s NOT the same! Continue reading

Posted in Communications, Desire, Education, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Faux-Masculinity, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Parenting, Personal Domain, Questions from Readers, Self-Control, Sphere of Influence, Teaching | 105 Comments

The D@mning Power of Humility

A desire for humility is a desire for love. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Erotic Blueprints, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority | 78 Comments

Why are attractive women more dangerous to beta men than their less attractive friends?

It is the beauty and the pu$$y, and not just the pu$$y alone that causes men to make worse decisions. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Satire, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Vetting Women | 69 Comments

Lust

When does it cross the line? Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Attraction, Autopilot, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Fantasy and Illusion, Fundamental Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Control, Sex, The Power of God | 51 Comments

Aquatic Life on Planet Tumblr

Also applies to Instagram, YouTube, the OASIS, et al. Continue reading

Posted in Advertising, Archetypes, Attraction, Collective Strength, Comedy, Competence / Competition, Conserving Power, Cultural Anthropology, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Enduring Suffering, Erotic Blueprints, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Internet Dating Sites, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Media, Models of Failure, Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization, Online Personas, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Satire, Self-Concept, Sex, Society | 76 Comments

Christian Detachment

Not carelessness, but conviction. Readership: AllTheme: Consolidating MasculinityLength: 1,700 wordsReading Time: 9 minutes Men’s Inherent Gynocentrism It has often been said that “Women are the gatekeepers of sex.” It would be better for us to regard the phenomenon behind this axiom with a little … Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God | 28 Comments

The Path to Contentment

Contentment involves avoiding complacency and agentically choosing to submit one’s self to God as opposed to pursuing self-interest or worldly ambitions. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Autopilot, Building Wealth, Calculated Risk Taking, Competence / Competition, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Desire, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Elite Cultural Influences, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, Masculine Disciplines, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization, Organization and Structure, Overcoming Addictions, Paradigms of Religion, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Power, Prayer, Purpose, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Socio-Economic Class Studies, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 10 Comments

Ambition

A Man’s Ambition and his relationship with God are two entirely different things. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Authenticity, Charisma, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Confidence, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Paradigms of Religion, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Personality Types, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Therapeutic Moralistic Deism | 8 Comments