Category Archives: Inner Game

The habitual process of maintaining frame and objectivity in the face of challenging circumstances or emotions.

The Learning Psychology of Women who Participate in the Online Amateur Sex Industry

All incentives, no apparent penalties. What is there not to like? Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Decision Making, Feminism, Hamsterbation, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Psychology, Society, Solipsism | 92 Comments

Why is the online amateur sex industry attractive to men?

Because it’s the best cost per benefit option – or so it seems. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Female Power, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Internet Dating Sites, IOI's, Love, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, The Power of God | 31 Comments

How to open up the topic of personality disorders in conversation

What are the presuppositions that you must work through before discussing personality pathology? Continue reading

Posted in Disorders, Health, Introspection, Psychology, Relationships | 8 Comments

Average age of first time sexual experience (data) and what this means for Christians

10 years is a long time to wait! Continue reading

Posted in Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, International, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Society, Statistics Reports, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | 66 Comments

Abandonment Issues

Does your significant other start a fight every time you walk out the door? Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Disorders, Psychology, Relationships, Vetting Women | 29 Comments

On the Ethics of Teenage Marriage

Taking a wider Frame of view is wise, and perhaps necessary. Continue reading

Posted in Child Development, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Feminism, Introspection, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Stewardship, Strategy | 32 Comments

Redemption and Sexual Healing

It depends on whether we think sex is dirty or holy Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Building Wealth, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 40 Comments

Zizek – Everyday Sexuality

Fantasy and frustration is the mark of the madness. Continue reading

Posted in Consent, Culture Wars, Desire, Desire, Passion, Female Power, Feminism, Food, Handling Rejection, Homosexuality, MGTOW, Incels, Politics, Power, Psychology, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Solipsism | 2 Comments

The Masculine Dilemma

She might be a plain Jane, but will she cook and bang? Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Headship and Patriarchy, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 58 Comments

A Ring of Gold in a Swine’s Snout

Women might have more dignity if they took themselves less seriously. Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Clothing, Convergence, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Feminism, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Satire, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Vetting Women | 8 Comments