Category Archives: Love

Sexual Authority and Sanctification

What does it mean to “yield authority over one’s body to one’s spouse”? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Charisma, Churchianity, Clothing, Complementarianism, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Ethical Systems, Female Power, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God | 46 Comments

The Bungling Dimwitted Lazy Husband

…is not humble or hardworking enough, or so they say. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Archetypes, Attitude, Attraction, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discipline, Faux-Masculinity, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Personal Domain, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Hamster, Zeitgeist Reports | 99 Comments

Why you will marry the wrong person

Thoughts from Alain de Botton about the nature of love. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Glory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Philosophy, Power, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Society, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Teaching, The Hamster, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 28 Comments

How to Tell if Your Date might be an Adulteress

Sniffing out a cheating slore is not an easy task… unless you use discernment. Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Glory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Secrecy, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 8 Comments

If she loves you, then she’ll be a pain in the @ss!

Appearances can be deceiving. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Meet Cute, Moral Agency, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 42 Comments

The Meet Cute Experience as a Selection Model

The Meet Cute is an authentic selection model fitting the Tingly Respect (Headship) structure. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Faith Community, Female Power, Headship and Patriarchy, Indicators of Interest, Love, Meet Cute, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Strategy, The Power of God | 15 Comments

The Sweet Aroma of Love

…is in the freshly F–ed Aura! Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Charisma, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence | Tagged , , | 14 Comments

Infidelity is anything short of fidelity.

Being faithful is not about avoiding sin, but in Glorifying the Lord. Embracing God’s archetype of marriage is one important way to do this. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Indicators of Contempt, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 10 Comments

Wives reap what they sow

The opposite of submission is not necessarily rebellion, but a heart that is miserly with affection and grace. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Glory, God's Concept of Justice, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Love, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 38 Comments

Towards a more complete appreciation of Sanctification

“This is my husband.”  “This is my wife.” “Til death do us part.” …and grateful for it all! Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Forgiveness, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 18 Comments