Category Archives: Love

Jack on Female Agency

Women need emotional support and constant encouragement, feedback, and guidance to exercise agency. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Chivalry, Collective Strength, Comedy, Communications, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Satire, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Teaching, The Hamster, The Power of God, Trust | 15 Comments

The Moral Agency of Dogs

You have total responsibility and limited control.  It’s a labor of love. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Animal Kingdom, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Parenting, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Science, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 97 Comments

It’s her choice whether or not to submit.

The choices are His way to Headship or the highway to ħɘll. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Charisma, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Determination, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God | 80 Comments

Laying out Expectations

…is a powerful way that men install boundaries. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Collective Strength, Communication Styles, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Ethical Systems, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Health and Fitness, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Parenting, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, The Hamster, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 44 Comments

Laying out Boundaries

…is a powerful way that men install Headship. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Feminism, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Parenting, Psychology, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God | 57 Comments

Sexual Submission

Her Attraction and Arousal are both necessary, adding to Humility and Trust. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Erotic Blueprints, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sexual Authority, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, The Hamster, Trust, Vetting Women | 78 Comments

Riding the Raging Rivulet

Eliminate static to improve transmission. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Boundaries, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Persuasion, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sex, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God | 16 Comments

Erotic Blueprints and Personality

Why is finding sexual compatibility so frustrating? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Erotic Blueprints, Female Power, Game, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Personality Types, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 22 Comments

Bastards

A modern revised understanding of the concept. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Charisma, Child Development, Collective Strength, Confidence, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, God's Concept of Justice, Headship and Patriarchy, Identity, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Parenting, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Single Parents, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God, Zeitgeist Reports | 3 Comments

On Curating a Christian Culture of Attraction

Can sexual attraction be trained or taught? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline and Molding, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychological Disorders, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Taiwan, Teaching, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 95 Comments