Category Archives: Boundaries

Infidelity is anything short of fidelity.

Posted on 2022-01-24 by Jack

Being faithful is not about avoiding sin, but in Glorifying the Lord. Embracing God’s archetype of marriage is one important way to do this. Continue reading →

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOCs, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 4 Comments

Tracking Raw Sex Performance on a Spread Sheet

Posted on 2022-01-19 by Jack

No F earns an F. Continue reading →

Posted in Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Hamsterbation, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Male Power, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Strategy, The Power of God | 18 Comments

Is Married Dread Game a transgression of marital vows?

Posted on 2022-01-17 by Jack

Know thine adversary! Is it your self? Continue reading →

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Complementarianism, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God | 32 Comments

What constitutes Adultery?

Posted on 2022-01-14 by thedeti

When sex is abused in such a way that the joy and intimacy of the sexual relationship is ruined between man and wife. Continue reading →

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Boundaries, Child Development, Courtship and Marriage, Divorce, Forgiveness, Glory, Introspection, Models of Failure, Mysticism, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Trust | 43 Comments

Towards a more complete appreciation of Sanctification

Posted on 2022-01-10 by Jack

“This is my husband.”  “This is my wife.” “Til death do us part.” …and grateful for it all! Continue reading →

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Forgiveness, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 10 Comments

2021 Winter Hibernation

Posted on 2021-12-22 by Jack

Stay strong and Merry Christmas! Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Charisma, Conflict Management, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Faith Community, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Manosphere, Moral Agency, Music, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Control, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust | 16 Comments

Not Trusting women is Deep Inner Game

Posted on 2021-12-15 by Jack

The proper management of Trust is the central pillar of holding Frame. Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Respect, Self-Control, SMV/MMV, Trust | 27 Comments

Social Authenticity Proof: Giving Women Attention

Posted on 2021-12-10 by Jack

Giving women the right kind of attention is a social lubricant. Continue reading →

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Charisma, Confidence, Cultural Differences, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Education, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Legalism, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, The Power of God | 16 Comments

Developing Masculinity

Posted on 2021-12-06 by Red Pill Apostle

Identify what it is you need to step up in your life. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship | 26 Comments

No More Mrs. Hot Mess!

Posted on 2021-11-29 by Jack

Women’s Version of the Covert Contract. Continue reading →

Posted in Answered Prayers, Attitude, Boundaries, Communications, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 115 Comments