Category Archives: Boundaries

Joy Shaming

Thou shalt be JOYFUL, dammit! Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Churchianity, Confidence, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Handling Rejection, Indicators of Contempt, Joy, Leadership, Legalism, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Paradigms of Religion, Personal Presentation, Power, Prayer, Protestantism, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Teaching, Therapeutic Moralistic Deism | 44 Comments

How do we teach young women about their own nature?

…like whether they are attracted to cruelty? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Child Development, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Satire, Self-Control, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust | 132 Comments

The White Knight

The cleverly obedient wuss who valiantly guards the pillars of the feminine imperatives. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Archetypes, Boundaries, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Convergence, Culture Wars, Desire, Faux-Masculinity, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Male Power, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Strategy | 65 Comments

The Armchair Philosopher

A mixed windbag of virtues and vices. Continue reading

Posted in Appreciating the Fine Arts, Archetypes, Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Comedy, Communications, Confidence, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discipline, Faux-Masculinity, Fundamental Frame, Game, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Media, Models of Success, Parenting, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Philosophy, Politics, Psychology, Purpose, Racial Relations, Respect, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Society, Socio-Economic Class Studies, Sphere of Influence | 34 Comments

A blinding obsession

…that erodes mens’ senses of discernment. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Boundaries, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Desire, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Legalism, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Psychology, Purity Culture, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, The Power of God | 94 Comments

Are you able to pay the cost of forgiving others?

Unforgiveness poses a critical barrier, emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Child Development, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Concept | 54 Comments

Determination and Detachment

Stay focused on your purpose, no matter what others may do or say. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Confidence, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Determination, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Indicators of Contempt, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Physical Training, Psychology, Purpose, Respect, Rites of Passage, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 32 Comments

Why you will marry the wrong person

Thoughts from Alain de Botton about the nature of love. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Glory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Philosophy, Power, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Society, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Teaching, The Hamster, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 28 Comments

The Unsolvable Problem of The Modern Sexual/Relationship Market

A broken lock, and a broken key. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women, Zeitgeist Reports | 31 Comments

The Young Man’s Problem

All men struggle with it (or have in the past), but are never permitted to discuss it, much less express it. Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Conspiracy Theories, Convergence, Culture Wars, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Holding Frame, Introspection, Male Power, Models of Failure, Perseverance, Purity Culture, Purpose, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Society, Stewardship, Zeitgeist Reports | 41 Comments