Category Archives: Boundaries

Ethical Issues Surrounding the Christian Conundrum

How does preselection, prioritizing sex, and fantasy affect the mating process? Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Influence, Introspection, Male Power, Manosphere, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV | 64 Comments

God’s Concept of Justice

We are not the judge. Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Churchianity, Convergence, Cultural Differences, Culture Wars, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Generational Curses, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Politics, Purpose, Racial Relations, Stewardship, Taiwan, The Power of God | 37 Comments

What would the world be like if everyone was Red Pilled?

The Red Pill is fraught with “solutions” that are frankly unrealistic on a larger scale. Continue reading

Posted in Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Education, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Influence, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 185 Comments

The Christian Marriage Dilemma

Marrying a Christian woman won’t necessarily give you a Christian marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Racial Relations, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, Taiwan, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 112 Comments

The Sexual Market IS the Marriage Market

Young people must run the gauntlet of the SMP just to get into the MMP! Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Feminism, Game Theory, Hypergamy, Male Power, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Strategy | 129 Comments

Sexual competition continues after marriage

Married couples have a duty to remain the apple of the other’s eye. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Female Power, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 120 Comments

The Futility of Justifying the Crash Landing

Women are struggling to rationalize the sad, bitter consequences of feminism. Is it truly justified? Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Feminism, Food, Headship and Patriarchy, Identity, Introspection, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Science, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Solipsism | 112 Comments

What Hitting Bottom will look like

The final dissolution before reintegration. Continue reading

Posted in Addictions, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Food, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Introspection, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Perseverance, Prayer, Prophecy, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 124 Comments

Revealing the motives behind unconcealed sex and nakedness

Did you ever wonder why some couples like to get it on in the park? A better question is, why doesn’t everyone? Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Clothing, Collective Strength, Confidence, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Fundamental Frame, Internet Dating Sites, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Psychology, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority | 5 Comments

Why do humans conceal mating?

Having sex privately is assumed to be a common modesty, but is it? Continue reading

Posted in Animals, Boundaries, Clothing, Cultural Differences, Discipline, Disorders, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Hypergamy, Media, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sexual Authority, Society | 37 Comments