Category Archives: Enduring Suffering

Pressing through the experiences of distress, hardship, pain, or rejection.

The Christian Marriage Dilemma

Marrying a Christian woman won’t necessarily give you a Christian marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Racial Relations, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, Taiwan, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 81 Comments

The Sexual Market IS the Marriage Market

Young people must run the gauntlet of the SMP just to get into the MMP! Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Feminism, Game Theory, Hypergamy, Male Power, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Strategy | 126 Comments

The Lopsided Liberalized Mating Market

Women have a significant advantage in the Sexual Marketplace. Here’s why. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Game Theory, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Male Power, Power, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV | 373 Comments

One Night in Beijing

A taste of Chinese culture in music. Readership: All;Notes: Originally posted on January 17, 2015. The Occasion The first day of the Chinese New Year holiday is today (2021 February 12)!!! In case anyone is wondering why the Chinese New … Continue reading

Posted in Authenticity, China, Cultural Differences, Enduring Suffering, Love, Music, Taiwan, The Power of God | 6 Comments

What Hitting Bottom will look like

The final dissolution before reintegration. Continue reading

Posted in Addictions, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Food, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Introspection, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Perseverance, Prayer, Prophecy, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 124 Comments

Something’s not right… (about Sexual Authority)

“Falling in love” with her places you at her behest. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Complementarianism, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | 126 Comments

The Addictive Nature of the Online Amateur Sex Industry

A quick, easy fix to check out from society. Continue reading

Posted in Addictions, Choosing A Profession, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Internet Dating Sites, Models of Failure, Psychology, Sexual Authority, Society, Vetting Women | 36 Comments

Average age of first time sexual experience (data) and what this means for Christians

10 years is a long time to wait! Continue reading

Posted in Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, International, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Society, Statistics Reports, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | 68 Comments

“Flipping the Switch” is God’s Gatekeeping, not her Tingle management

Submission to sexual authority is subordinant to God’s prerogatives. Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Consent, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discipline, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 29 Comments

Is the Christian Red Pill a Black Pill?

A comparison of the Red Pill, the Christian Red Pill, and the Black Pill. Continue reading

Posted in Charisma, Churchianity, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Power, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God | 21 Comments