Category Archives: Enduring Suffering

Pressing through the experiences of distress, hardship, pain, or rejection.

Jack on Female Agency

Women need emotional support and constant encouragement, feedback, and guidance to exercise agency. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Chivalry, Collective Strength, Comedy, Communications, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Satire, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Teaching, The Hamster, The Power of God, Trust | 15 Comments

The Moral Agency of Dogs

You have total responsibility and limited control.  It’s a labor of love. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Animal Kingdom, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Parenting, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Science, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 97 Comments

Do women possess moral agency?

Seeking an answer to the Manosphere’s old question. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Consent, Cultural Differences, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Introspection, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Psychology, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 57 Comments

It’s her choice whether or not to submit.

The choices are His way to Headship or the highway to ħɘll. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Charisma, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Determination, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God | 80 Comments

Game is an invitation to Humility

…and Humility leads to Validation. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Manosphere, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 26 Comments

Name it to Change it!

Identifying a transgression poses an implied demand for her to change it. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communication Styles, Communications, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Generational Curses, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Persuasion, Power, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 20 Comments

The Wages of Sin are Paid in Marriage

A history of Sexperience corrodes marriage from the inside out. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Vetting Women | 59 Comments

Sexual Submission

Her Attraction and Arousal are both necessary, adding to Humility and Trust. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Erotic Blueprints, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sexual Authority, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, The Hamster, Trust, Vetting Women | 78 Comments

Erotic Blueprints and Personality

Why is finding sexual compatibility so frustrating? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Erotic Blueprints, Female Power, Game, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Personality Types, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 22 Comments

The Glory of Submission and Humility in Helping

It’s not for the charity, but for the inner peace and purpose. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Holding Frame, Honor, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Joy, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Paradigms of Religion, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 37 Comments