Category Archives: Enduring Suffering

Pressing through the experiences of distress, hardship, pain, or rejection.

Infidelity is anything short of fidelity.

Being faithful is not about avoiding sin, but in Glorifying the Lord. Embracing God’s archetype of marriage is one important way to do this. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOCs, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 3 Comments

Tracking Raw Sex Performance on a Spread Sheet

No F earns an F. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Hamsterbation, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Male Power, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Strategy, The Power of God | 18 Comments

Is Married Dread Game a transgression of marital vows?

Know thine adversary! Is it your self? Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Complementarianism, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God | 32 Comments

Wives reap what they sow

The opposite of submission is not necessarily rebellion, but a heart that is miserly with affection and grace. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Disorders, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Glory, God's Concept of Justice, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Love, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Solipsism, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 35 Comments

The Mystery of Marriage

Father Spyridon offers insights to the beauty and gravity of marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Authenticity, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Faith Community, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, International, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Orthodoxy, Philosophy, Protestantism, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Stewardship, The Power of God | 30 Comments

The Importance of Biblical Marriage

Headship is routinely ignored. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Building Wealth, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Disorders, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Trust, Zeitgeist Reports | 11 Comments

2 Old Farts Talking About Their Wives

More thoughts on wife selection and wife moulding. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 16 Comments

Not Trusting women is Deep Inner Game

The proper management of Trust is the central pillar of holding Frame. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Respect, Self-Control, SMV/MMV, Trust | 27 Comments

Dating in the Lion’s Den: Relying on Faith when the options are daunting

Thoughts on wife selection and wife molding. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 75 Comments

Deti’s Advice to Underqualified Men

Identify your sphere of influence and be selective. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Vetting Women | 47 Comments