Category Archives: Erotic Blueprints

Validation is about Losing Self-Control

Humility happens when the Lady’s Libido Lights Up. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Autopilot, Charisma, Churchianity, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Passion, Erotic Blueprints, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Mysticism, Personal Domain, Power, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Taiwan, The Power of God, Trust | 20 Comments

Sexual Submission

Her Attraction and Arousal are both necessary, adding to Humility and Trust. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Erotic Blueprints, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sexual Authority, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, The Hamster, Trust, Vetting Women | 79 Comments

Erotic Blueprints and Personality

Why is finding sexual compatibility so frustrating? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Erotic Blueprints, Female Power, Game, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Personality Types, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 22 Comments