Category Archives: Courtship and Marriage

The Lie of Romantic Love

Posted on 2023-02-03 by Jack

How should a man show love to a woman? Continue reading →

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Chivalry, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Ethical Systems, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Society, Sphere of Influence | 9 Comments

Are Men Responsible for Women’s Behavior?

Posted on 2023-02-01 by Jack

Sorting out the duties and responsiblities from the lies. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Honor, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Parenting, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Teaching, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 61 Comments

Christian Detachment

Posted on 2023-01-30 by Jack

Not carelessness, but conviction. Readership: AllTheme: Consolidating MasculinityLength: 1,700 wordsReading Time: 9 minutes Men’s Inherent Gynocentrism It has often been said that “Women are the gatekeepers of sex.” It would be better for us to regard the phenomenon behind this axiom with a little … Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God | 23 Comments

How to Assume the Missionary Position

Posted on 2023-01-27 by Jack

Are you on a mission for God, or for Gynocentrism? Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sex, Society, The Power of God | 51 Comments

SMP Paradigms Compared

Posted on 2023-01-23 by Jack

Stay on target… Stay on target… Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Choosing A Profession, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 66 Comments

Expectations (for LTRs)

Posted on 2023-01-20 by Jack

A man’s expectations need to be fully in line with his Mission and Purpose. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discernment, Wisdom, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Parenting, Personal Domain, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 55 Comments

Men’s Role in the Mess

Posted on 2022-12-21 by Jack

Headship, NOT Hyperagency! Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Authenticity, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Collective Strength, Communications, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Prayer, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, Teaching, Trust | 91 Comments

What we’ve learned about Female Agency

Posted on 2022-12-20 by Jack

The weaker vessel will give you much trouble in the flesh. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Authenticity, Charisma, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Control, Society, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust | 19 Comments

Red Pill Apostle on Women’s Moral Agency

Posted on 2022-12-15 by Red Pill Apostle

Women have situational pseudo-agency under the cover of Headship.  Without Headship, they are woeful free agents. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Calculated Risk Taking, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discipline and Molding, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Power, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God, Trust | 39 Comments

A Wife Who Learned how to Motivate her Husband

Posted on 2022-12-14 by Jack

You guessed it right… Her submission to his Headship, and moar sex! Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Calculated Risk Taking, Collective Strength, Communications, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discerning Lies and Deception, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Guest Articles, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Parenting, Personal Domain, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God | 98 Comments