Category Archives: Courtship and Marriage

Current Homesteads for the Faithful Few?

Exactly where are people conforming to God’s ordained order? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Calculated Risk Taking, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Faith Community, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, The Power of God | 26 Comments

The Black Pill is the Natural Outcome of the Secular Mating Paradigm

Running the gauntlet is playing by the world’s rules. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Conserving Power, Convergence, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Discerning Lies and Deception, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Internet Dating Sites, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization, Running the Gauntlet, SMV/MMV, The Power of God | 33 Comments

What is the Black Pill?

The essential recipe of the lethal concoction. Continue reading

Posted in Decision Making, Depression, Desire, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Purpose, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 12 Comments

On Choosing the Flesh over Christ

Competing in the secular SMP displaces obedience to Christ and destroys the blessings thereof. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Ethical Systems, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Zeitgeist Reports | 125 Comments

Roundup on Attraction and Marital Sanctification

Idolizing sex leads to a bad marriage, or none at all. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Ethical Systems, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Manosphere, Masculine Disciplines, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God | 31 Comments

The Christ : Church :: Husband : Wife Analogy

The ancient Hebrew archetype for marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Male Power, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Near East, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Prophecy, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust | 16 Comments

Only Hunky Monks can find a Sanctified Marriage

Is Attraction limited to carnal SMV indicators? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Elite Cultural Influences, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Intersexual Dynamics, Power, Purpose, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, The Power of God, White Wash | 77 Comments

On Clarifying a Christian Culture of Attraction

Juxtaposing the Carnal and the Spiritual through Attraction. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Health and Fitness, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Physical Training, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust | 50 Comments

The Delusion of the Good

It’s easier to have the faux faith of a pharisee when you believe the pretty lies. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Attraction, Authenticity, Calculated Risk Taking, Chivalry, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faux-Masculinity, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Legalism, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Vetting Women | 28 Comments

On Curating a Christian Culture of Attraction

Can sexual attraction be trained or taught? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline and Molding, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychological Disorders, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Taiwan, Teaching, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 95 Comments