Category Archives: Self-Concept

The Christian Marriage Dilemma

Marrying a Christian woman won’t necessarily give you a Christian marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Racial Relations, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, Taiwan, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 83 Comments

Parental Divorce Ruins Daughters’ Future Marital Commitment and Confidence

Another red flag: If her parents are divorced. Continue reading

Posted in Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Generational Curses, Influence, Models of Failure, Psychology, Relationships, Reviews, Science, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 154 Comments

Fad Diets and Adjustment Disorders

This week’s ramblings. Continue reading

Posted in Disorders, Education, Food, Health, Military, Psychology, Self-Concept | 73 Comments

Sexual competition continues after marriage

Married couples have a duty to remain the apple of the other’s eye. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Female Power, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 118 Comments

The Lopsided Liberalized Mating Market

Women have a significant advantage in the Sexual Marketplace. Here’s why. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Game Theory, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Male Power, Power, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV | 373 Comments

The Futility of Justifying the Crash Landing

Women are struggling to rationalize the sad, bitter consequences of feminism. Is it truly justified? Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Feminism, Food, Headship and Patriarchy, Identity, Introspection, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Science, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Solipsism | 110 Comments

What Hitting Bottom will look like

The final dissolution before reintegration. Continue reading

Posted in Addictions, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Food, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Introspection, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Perseverance, Prayer, Prophecy, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 124 Comments

The Centrality of Sex in Western Culture

SEX, above all else! Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Female Power, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Vetting Women | 190 Comments

The Soul Mate Myth

Is the hope for a Soul Mate a mythos or a myth? Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Education, Fundamental Frame, Hamsterbation, Models of Failure, Relationships, Self-Concept, Solipsism | 87 Comments

Revealing the motives behind unconcealed sex and nakedness

Did you ever wonder why some couples like to get it on in the park? A better question is, why doesn’t everyone? Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Clothing, Collective Strength, Confidence, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Fundamental Frame, Internet Dating Sites, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Psychology, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority | 5 Comments