Category Archives: Running the Gauntlet

A Clarification on Fornication

Just to be clear. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Attitude, Communications, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Gnosticism, Holding Frame, Introspection, Legalism, Masturbation, Models of Failure, Psychology, Purity Culture, Purpose, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Self-Control | 51 Comments

An Analogy of Risk Management

An analogy of vetting using the insurance industry. Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Introspection, Models of Success, Philosophy, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Vetting Women | 28 Comments

How to Tell if Your Date might be an Adulteress

Sniffing out a cheating slore is not an easy task… unless you use discernment. Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Glory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Secrecy, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 8 Comments

Does Masturbation improve Preselection?

Is releasing sexual tension helpful or not? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Authenticity, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Internet Dating Sites, Male Power, Masturbation, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purity Culture, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Hamster, Vetting Women | 23 Comments

Film Review: The Dating Project

Dating is presented as a nonChristian activity that Christians should do. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Convergence, Female Power, Handling Rejection, Introspection, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Trust, Zeitgeist Reports | 14 Comments

The Unsolvable Problem of The Modern Sexual/Relationship Market

A broken lock, and a broken key. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women, Zeitgeist Reports | 31 Comments

Towards a more complete appreciation of Sanctification

“This is my husband.”  “This is my wife.” “Til death do us part.” …and grateful for it all! Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Forgiveness, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 15 Comments

Women have sex to influence men

A confirmation from a PUA’s perspective. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Inner Game, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 103 Comments

Carousel Widow in Decline – Part 5

A real time case study of a carousel rider. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Feminism, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Psychological Disorders, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Solipsism, Taiwan, The Hamster, Vetting Women | 38 Comments

Carousel Widow in Decline – Part 4

A snapshot of defilement. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Feminism, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Psychological Disorders, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Solipsism, Taiwan, The Hamster, Vetting Women | 161 Comments