Category Archives: Running the Gauntlet

The Black Pill is the Natural Outcome of the Secular Mating Paradigm

Running the gauntlet is playing by the world’s rules. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Conserving Power, Convergence, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Discerning Lies and Deception, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Internet Dating Sites, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization, Running the Gauntlet, SMV/MMV, The Power of God | 33 Comments

What is the Black Pill?

The essential recipe of the lethal concoction. Continue reading

Posted in Decision Making, Depression, Desire, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Purpose, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 12 Comments

On Choosing the Flesh over Christ

Competing in the secular SMP displaces obedience to Christ and destroys the blessings thereof. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Ethical Systems, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Zeitgeist Reports | 125 Comments

A Clarification on Fornication

Just to be clear. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Attitude, Communications, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Gnosticism, Holding Frame, Introspection, Legalism, Masturbation, Models of Failure, Psychology, Purity Culture, Purpose, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Self-Control | 51 Comments

An Analogy of Risk Management

An analogy of vetting using the insurance industry. Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Introspection, Models of Success, Philosophy, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Vetting Women | 28 Comments

How to Tell if Your Date might be an Adulteress

Sniffing out a cheating slore is not an easy task… unless you use discernment. Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Glory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Secrecy, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 8 Comments

Does Masturbation improve Preselection?

Is releasing sexual tension helpful or not? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Authenticity, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Internet Dating Sites, Male Power, Masturbation, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purity Culture, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Hamster, Vetting Women | 23 Comments

Film Review: The Dating Project

Dating is presented as a nonChristian activity that Christians should do. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Convergence, Female Power, Handling Rejection, Introspection, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Trust, Zeitgeist Reports | 14 Comments

The Unsolvable Problem of The Modern Sexual/Relationship Market

A broken lock, and a broken key. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women, Zeitgeist Reports | 38 Comments

Towards a more complete appreciation of Sanctification

“This is my husband.”  “This is my wife.” “Til death do us part.” …and grateful for it all! Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Forgiveness, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 21 Comments