Category Archives: Choosing a Partner or Spouse

How P0rn and Premarital Sex affects one’s view of Women

A personal testimony from Jack. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, God's Concept of Justice, Gynocentrism, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Masturbation, Models of Failure, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Sex, Taiwan | 100 Comments

The D@mning Power of Humility

A desire for humility is a desire for love. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Erotic Blueprints, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority | 78 Comments

The Disappointments of Transactional Relationships

The mindset behind the revolving door of cum one, cum all! Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Decision Making, Divorce, Ethical Systems, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust | 32 Comments

Why are attractive women more dangerous to beta men than their less attractive friends?

It is the beauty and the pu$$y, and not just the pu$$y alone that causes men to make worse decisions. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Satire, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Vetting Women | 69 Comments

Are Men Responsible for Women’s Behavior?

Sorting out the duties and responsiblities from the lies. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Honor, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Parenting, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Teaching, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 66 Comments

Christian Detachment

Not carelessness, but conviction. Readership: AllTheme: Consolidating MasculinityLength: 1,700 wordsReading Time: 9 minutes Men’s Inherent Gynocentrism It has often been said that “Women are the gatekeepers of sex.” It would be better for us to regard the phenomenon behind this axiom with a little … Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God | 27 Comments

How to Assume the Missionary Position

Are you on a mission for God, or for Gynocentrism? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sex, Society, The Power of God | 52 Comments

SMP Paradigms Compared

Stay on target… Stay on target… Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Choosing A Profession, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 66 Comments

Expectations (for LTRs)

A man’s expectations need to be fully in line with his Mission and Purpose. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discernment, Wisdom, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Parenting, Personal Domain, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 55 Comments

Contentment

A proactive and responsible stance towards life, with God’s blessing, eventually leads to Contentment. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Archetypes, Building Wealth, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Choosing A Profession, Collective Strength, Decision Making, Determination, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, India, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Politics, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God | 57 Comments