Category Archives: Charisma

Is Married Dread Game a transgression of marital vows?

Know thine adversary! Is it your self? Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Complementarianism, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God | 32 Comments

2021 Winter Hibernation

Stay strong and Merry Christmas! Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Charisma, Conflict Management, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Faith Community, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Manosphere, Moral Agency, Music, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Control, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust | 16 Comments

Social Authenticity Proof: Giving Women Attention

Giving women the right kind of attention is a social lubricant. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Charisma, Confidence, Cultural Differences, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Education, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Legalism, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, The Power of God | 16 Comments

Deti’s Advice to Underqualified Men

Identify your sphere of influence and be selective. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Vetting Women | 47 Comments

Moral Guidance Based Feedback vs. Sexual Attention

Both are necessary for redemption and sanctification (in marriage). Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Boundaries, Charisma, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 3 Comments

Start Small to Build Internal Locus of Control

Focus on faith, not on failure. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Charisma, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Rites of Passage, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God | 20 Comments

Jesus and Women

It’s in the Bible! Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Communications, Confidence, Conflict Management, Decision Making, Determination, Discipline, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 44 Comments

Lessons on Life and Marriage from Matthew 10

The rules of the road for Commission also apply to Marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Charisma, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Confidence, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 148 Comments

Exhuming the Masculine Frame

Men develop maturity by exercising frame and emphasizing personal value. Continue reading

Posted in Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Charisma, Collective Strength, Confidence, Conflict Management, Discernment, Wisdom, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Military, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 48 Comments

How is Godliness Attractive?

Does spiritual maturity count for anything in the SMP, MMP, or marriage? Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Charisma, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, The Power of God | 157 Comments