Author Archives: thedeti

Deti on Female Accountability

Posted on 2022-11-25 by thedeti

The Vituperative Veneration of the V must be Vanquished. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Child Development, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Purpose, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Solipsism, Stewardship, Teaching, The Power of God | 72 Comments

Deti on Female Agency

Posted on 2022-11-08 by thedeti

Women’s agency is operantly conditioned. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Headship and Patriarchy, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Organization and Structure | 70 Comments

The Delusion of the Good

Posted on 2022-08-19 by thedeti

It’s easier to have the faux faith of a pharisee when you believe the pretty lies. Continue reading →

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Attraction, Authenticity, Calculated Risk Taking, Chivalry, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faux-Masculinity, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Legalism, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Vetting Women | 29 Comments

The more things change, the more they stay the same.

Posted on 2022-02-28 by thedeti

An overview of how the SMP has changed within the last 30 years. Continue reading →

Posted in Attitude, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Polysexuality, Relationships, Secrecy, SMV/MMV, Vetting Women, Zeitgeist Reports | 37 Comments

The Unsolvable Problem of The Modern Sexual/Relationship Market

Posted on 2022-02-07 by thedeti

A broken lock, and a broken key. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women, Zeitgeist Reports | 41 Comments

Blue Pill Arrogance of the 80s

Posted on 2022-02-02 by thedeti

80’s dating as portrayed in films of the era. Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Clothing, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Female Power, Feminism, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Male Power, Media, Meet Cute, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purity Culture, Relationships, Reviews, Satire, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Socio-Economic Class Studies, Vetting Women | 36 Comments

What can a husband do in response to a rebellious wife?

Posted on 2022-01-31 by thedeti

Make expectations clear and give immediate feedback. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Complementarianism, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 20 Comments

What constitutes Adultery?

Posted on 2022-01-14 by thedeti

When sex is abused in such a way that the joy and intimacy of the sexual relationship is ruined between man and wife. Continue reading →

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Boundaries, Child Development, Courtship and Marriage, Divorce, Forgiveness, Glory, Introspection, Models of Failure, Mysticism, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Trust | 46 Comments

Deti’s Advice to Underqualified Men

Posted on 2021-12-08 by thedeti

Identify your sphere of influence and be selective. Continue reading →

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Indicators of Interest, Inner Game, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Vetting Women | 56 Comments

Disclosing the Taboo of Masculine Sexuality

Posted on 2021-10-20 by thedeti

…because it should not be a taboo. Continue reading →

Posted in Building Wealth, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Purpose, Relationships, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God | 108 Comments