Author Archives: thedeti

The Delusion of the Good

It’s easier to have the faux faith of a pharisee when you believe the pretty lies. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Attraction, Authenticity, Calculated Risk Taking, Chivalry, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faux-Masculinity, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Legalism, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Vetting Women | 28 Comments

The more things change, the more they stay the same.

An overview of how the SMP has changed within the last 30 years. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Polysexuality, Relationships, Secrecy, SMV/MMV, Vetting Women, Zeitgeist Reports | 36 Comments

The Unsolvable Problem of The Modern Sexual/Relationship Market

A broken lock, and a broken key. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women, Zeitgeist Reports | 39 Comments

Blue Pill Arrogance of the 80s

80’s dating as portrayed in films of the era. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Clothing, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Female Power, Feminism, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Male Power, Media, Meet Cute, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purity Culture, Relationships, Reviews, Satire, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Socio-Economic Class Studies, Vetting Women | 36 Comments

What can a husband do in response to a rebellious wife?

Make expectations clear and give immediate feedback. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Complementarianism, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 16 Comments

What constitutes Adultery?

When sex is abused in such a way that the joy and intimacy of the sexual relationship is ruined between man and wife. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Boundaries, Child Development, Courtship and Marriage, Divorce, Forgiveness, Glory, Introspection, Models of Failure, Mysticism, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Trust | 45 Comments

Deti’s Advice to Underqualified Men

Identify your sphere of influence and be selective. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Indicators of Interest, Inner Game, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Vetting Women | 55 Comments

Disclosing the Taboo of Masculine Sexuality

…because it should not be a taboo. Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Purpose, Relationships, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God | 108 Comments

Jesus and Women

It’s in the Bible! Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Communications, Confidence, Conflict Management, Decision Making, Determination, Discipline, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 44 Comments

The Advent of Polysexuality

The west takes a walk on the wild side! Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Collective Strength, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Elite Cultural Influences, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Homosexuality, Internet Dating Sites, Polysexuality, Psychology, Relationships, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Zeitgeist Reports | 42 Comments