Category Archives: Decision Making

The cognitive processes involved in identifying and selecting a belief or a course of action among several alternative possibilities, based on the values, preferences and related beliefs of the decision-maker.

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Different men get different responses from different women. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Game Theory, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 6 Comments

Having an Attractive Attitude in Serving

Having the right attitude goes a long way towards becoming a recipient of a blessing. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Faith Community, Game Theory, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | Tagged , , , | 9 Comments

Being Attractive in Service

What makes you attractive is who you are, not what you do. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Game Theory, Glory, Influence, Joy, Love, Male Power, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , , , | 14 Comments

Sanctification and Sexual Compatibility

Are sanctification and sexual compatibility exclusive of each other? Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, Sanctification & Defilement, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 43 Comments

Looking at the Essentials

Young people need to think on two (or more) planes when selecting a mate. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged | 48 Comments

Only God can grant a successful marriage

How do some people achieve a blessed marriage, while others do not?  Maybe God might have something to do with it. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Introspection, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Perseverance, Relationships, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , | 15 Comments

We Marry Our Own Cross

The frustration of marital incompatibility is intended to produce Christ in us. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Enduring Suffering, Holding Frame, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, The Power of God | Tagged , | 7 Comments

The need for Marriage Education

Education is important for building strong marriages.  But what should be taught, and how? Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discipline, Education, Faith Community, Influence, Leadership, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 9 Comments

What’s good for the goose is bad for the gander.

A discussion of the Faithlessness of Immaturity and the Hopelessness of Gender Inequality. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discipline, Disorders, Enduring Suffering, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, Stewardship, Strategy | Tagged , | 22 Comments

Sexual Consent in Marriage

Contrary to popular culture, a Christian wife needs her husband’s consent to either refuse sex or “let herself go”. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Consent, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Female Power, Influence, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Relationships, Stewardship, The Power of God | Tagged | 19 Comments