Category Archives: Holding Frame

Redemption and Sexual Healing

It depends on whether we think sex is dirty or holy Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Building Wealth, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 40 Comments

Is the Christian Red Pill a Black Pill?

A comparison of the Red Pill, the Christian Red Pill, and the Black Pill. Continue reading

Posted in Charisma, Churchianity, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Power, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God | 18 Comments

Scott on Forgiveness

There is an intermediate step between a wrongdoing and forgiveness. Continue reading

Posted in Enduring Suffering, Forgiveness, Holding Frame, Introspection, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 4 Comments

The Parable of the Bonsai

Moulding a wife is like trimming a shrub. Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Influence, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | Leave a comment

Let the kids eat cake to keep them out of trouble!

Don’t be fooled by interesting, but ultimately useless and time wasting distractions. Continue reading

Posted in Conflict Management, Conspiracy Theories, Culture Wars, Discerning Lies and Deception, Holding Frame, Leadership, Persuasion, Politics, Power, Strategy | 8 Comments

You have to leave Murika to get the Real News

Western news has converged to selective liberalism. Continue reading

Posted in Conspiracy Theories, Culture Wars, Holding Frame, Leadership, Media, Models of Failure, News Critique, Politics, Taiwan | 2 Comments

Patheological Weddingsday – When wanton treachery brings shame, not honor.

Rules are lightning rods of shame for those seeking after the flesh. Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Churchianity, Clothing, Collective Strength, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Faith Community, Feminism, Hamsterbation, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Love, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Near East, Organization and Structure, Purity Culture, Relationships, Reviews, Self-Concept, Solipsism, The Power of God | 29 Comments

How to Transform Your Image

Hitting the gym, losing weight, and becoming physically fit is good, but it’s not enough! Continue reading

Posted in Conserving Power, Determination, Enduring Suffering, Fasting, Health, Holding Frame, IOI's, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Prayer, Purpose, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, The Power of God | Tagged , , , | 5 Comments

Handling an IOI requires a Miracle!

Is it possible for a high SMV Christian man to respond to an IOI in a Christ-like manner? Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, IOI's, Models of Failure, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 17 Comments

Wimmin at the Well

Missionary dating is not what you might think. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Influence, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , | 43 Comments