Category Archives: Holding Frame

Handling an IOI requires a Miracle!

Is it possible for a high SMV Christian man to respond to an IOI in a Christ-like manner? Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, IOI's, Models of Failure, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 16 Comments

Wimmin at the Well

Missionary dating is not what you might think. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Influence, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , | 43 Comments

How to Develop an Attitude of Detachment

Maintaining Frame is the same as setting Socio-Emotional Boundaries. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Confidence, Conserving Power, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , , | 9 Comments

The Dominatrix Conversation

A dominatrix teaches power hungry women how to talk down to men. Continue reading

Posted in Culture Wars, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Feminism, Holding Frame, Models of Failure, Power, Psychology, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 10 Comments

Syzygy

The signs in the heavens are foreboding.  Are you prepared? Continue reading

Posted in Holding Frame, Moon Day Review, Prophecy | Tagged | 12 Comments

Sanctification and Sexual Compatibility

Are sanctification and sexual compatibility exclusive of each other? Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, Sanctification & Defilement, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 44 Comments

Looking at the Essentials

Young people need to think on two (or more) planes when selecting a mate. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged | 49 Comments

Small Schisms and Large Schisms

Christian Red Pill is seceding from secular Red Pill. Continue reading

Posted in Conflict Management, Conspiracy Theories, Culture Wars, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Personal Presentation, Questions from Readers | Tagged , | 24 Comments

Only God can grant a successful marriage

How do some people achieve a blessed marriage, while others do not?  Maybe God might have something to do with it. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Introspection, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Perseverance, Relationships, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , | 15 Comments

We Marry Our Own Cross

The frustration of marital incompatibility is intended to produce Christ in us. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Enduring Suffering, Holding Frame, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, The Power of God | Tagged , | 7 Comments