Category Archives: Purpose

The best enema of all

A wife who refuses anal sex is only marginally better than a wife who refuses sex altogether. Continue reading

Posted in Desire, Passion, Homosexuality, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement | Tagged | 7 Comments

Wimmin at the Well

Missionary dating is not what you might think. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Influence, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , | 43 Comments

How to Develop an Attitude of Detachment

Maintaining Frame is the same as setting Socio-Emotional Boundaries. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Confidence, Conserving Power, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , , | 9 Comments

Having an Attractive Attitude in Serving

Having the right attitude goes a long way towards becoming a recipient of a blessing. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Faith Community, Game Theory, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | Tagged , , , | 9 Comments

Being Attractive in Service

What makes you attractive is who you are, not what you do. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Game Theory, Glory, Influence, Joy, Love, Male Power, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , , , | 14 Comments

We Marry Our Own Cross

The frustration of marital incompatibility is intended to produce Christ in us. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Enduring Suffering, Holding Frame, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, The Power of God | Tagged , | 7 Comments

The need for Marriage Education

Education is important for building strong marriages.  But what should be taught, and how? Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discipline, Education, Faith Community, Influence, Leadership, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 9 Comments

Life education beats the smarm

Scott explains how children can learn much more of life while out of school. Continue reading

Posted in Authenticity, Child Development, Collective Strength, Confidence, Cultural Differences, Discipline, Education, Influence, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Purpose, Relationships, Stewardship | Tagged , , | 11 Comments

How I discovered that I wanted to be married

Scott tells the story of how he came to see himself as a happily married man.  Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Purpose, Relationships | Tagged | 19 Comments

On the Concept of Sin and the need for Marriage

If your soldier is standing at attention, ready to defile, it’s wise to give him a mission before he can debouch. Continue reading

Posted in Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discernment, Wisdom, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Purity Culture, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Stewardship, Strategy | Tagged | 30 Comments