Category Archives: Denying/Witholding Sex

A Response to GrifterShifter’s Comments

Posted on 2023-01-25 by Jack

Consolidating one’s Masculinity requires a man to be responsive, knowledgeable, and get the facts right. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Churchianity, Communications, Conflict Management, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Online Personas, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Respect, Science, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, The Hamster | 68 Comments

SMP Paradigms Compared

Posted on 2023-01-23 by Jack

Stay on target… Stay on target… Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Choosing A Profession, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 66 Comments

Expectations (for LTRs)

Posted on 2023-01-20 by Jack

A man’s expectations need to be fully in line with his Mission and Purpose. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discernment, Wisdom, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Parenting, Personal Domain, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 55 Comments

A Wife Who Learned how to Motivate her Husband

Posted on 2022-12-14 by Jack

You guessed it right… Her submission to his Headship, and moar sex! Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Calculated Risk Taking, Collective Strength, Communications, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discerning Lies and Deception, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Guest Articles, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Parenting, Personal Domain, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God | 98 Comments

Holding Out

Posted on 2022-12-02 by Jack

The apathetic careless cruelty of a woman is the ultimate misandry. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Courtship and Marriage, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Handling Rejection, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sex | 46 Comments

It’s her choice whether or not to submit.

Posted on 2022-10-28 by Jack

The choices are His way to Headship or the highway to ħɘll. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Charisma, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Determination, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God | 81 Comments

Validation is about Losing Self-Control

Posted on 2022-10-24 by Jack

Humility happens when the Lady’s Libido Lights Up. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Autopilot, Charisma, Churchianity, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Passion, Erotic Blueprints, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Mysticism, Personal Domain, Power, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Taiwan, The Power of God, Trust | 21 Comments

The Wages of Sin are Paid in Marriage

Posted on 2022-10-15 by Jack

A history of Sexperience corrodes marriage from the inside out. Continue reading →

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Vetting Women | 60 Comments

Sexual Submission

Posted on 2022-10-14 by Jack

Her Attraction and Arousal are both necessary, adding to Humility and Trust. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Erotic Blueprints, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sexual Authority, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, The Hamster, Trust, Vetting Women | 79 Comments

Riding the Raging Rivulet

Posted on 2022-10-13 by Jack

Eliminate static to improve transmission. Continue reading →

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Boundaries, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Persuasion, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sex, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God | 16 Comments