Category Archives: Denying/Witholding Sex

A Response to GrifterShifter’s Comments

Consolidating one’s Masculinity requires a man to be responsive, knowledgeable, and get the facts right. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Churchianity, Communications, Conflict Management, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Online Personas, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Respect, Science, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, The Hamster | 68 Comments

SMP Paradigms Compared

Stay on target… Stay on target… Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Choosing A Profession, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 66 Comments

Expectations (for LTRs)

A man’s expectations need to be fully in line with his Mission and Purpose. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discernment, Wisdom, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Parenting, Personal Domain, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 55 Comments

A Wife Who Learned how to Motivate her Husband

You guessed it right… Her submission to his Headship, and moar sex! Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Calculated Risk Taking, Collective Strength, Communications, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discerning Lies and Deception, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Guest Articles, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Parenting, Personal Domain, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God | 98 Comments

Holding Out

The apathetic careless cruelty of a woman is the ultimate misandry. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Courtship and Marriage, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Handling Rejection, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sex | 46 Comments

It’s her choice whether or not to submit.

The choices are His way to Headship or the highway to ħɘll. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Charisma, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Determination, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God | 81 Comments

Validation is about Losing Self-Control

Humility happens when the Lady’s Libido Lights Up. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Autopilot, Charisma, Churchianity, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Passion, Erotic Blueprints, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Mysticism, Personal Domain, Power, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Taiwan, The Power of God, Trust | 21 Comments

The Wages of Sin are Paid in Marriage

A history of Sexperience corrodes marriage from the inside out. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Vetting Women | 60 Comments

Sexual Submission

Her Attraction and Arousal are both necessary, adding to Humility and Trust. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Erotic Blueprints, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sexual Authority, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, The Hamster, Trust, Vetting Women | 79 Comments

Riding the Raging Rivulet

Eliminate static to improve transmission. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Boundaries, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Persuasion, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sex, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God | 16 Comments