Category Archives: Self-Control

The Lie of Romantic Love

How should a man show love to a woman? Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Chivalry, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Ethical Systems, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Society, Sphere of Influence | 8 Comments

Christian Detachment

Not carelessness, but conviction. Readership: AllTheme: Consolidating MasculinityLength: 1,700 wordsReading Time: 9 minutes Men’s Inherent Gynocentrism It has often been said that “Women are the gatekeepers of sex.” It would be better for us to regard the phenomenon behind this axiom with a little … Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God | 23 Comments

The Path to Contentment

Contentment involves avoiding complacency and agentically choosing to submit one’s self to God as opposed to pursuing self-interest or worldly ambitions. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Autopilot, Building Wealth, Calculated Risk Taking, Competence / Competition, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Desire, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Elite Cultural Influences, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, Masculine Disciplines, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization, Organization and Structure, Overcoming Addictions, Paradigms of Religion, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Power, Prayer, Purpose, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Socio-Economic Class Studies, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 7 Comments

Oscar’s THOT Experiment

Hammering down on Female Agency. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Building Wealth, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Comedy, Communications, Competence / Competition, Decision Making, Determination, Discipline, Female Evo-Psych, Hypergamy, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Power, Relationships, Satire, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Vetting Women | 70 Comments

What One Man Can Do, Another Can Do

Encouraging words for overcoming debt and other obstacles. Continue reading

Posted in Advertising, Agency, Attitude, Building Wealth, Calculated Risk Taking, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discipline, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Society, Socio-Economic Class Studies, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God | 29 Comments

What we’ve learned about Female Agency

The weaker vessel will give you much trouble in the flesh. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Authenticity, Charisma, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Control, Society, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust | 19 Comments

Moral Agency is Dependent on Spiritual Maturity

You can’t have one without the other! Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Calculated Risk Taking, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Identity, Introspection, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God, Trust | 22 Comments

Deti on Female Accountability

The Vituperative Veneration of the V must be Vanquished. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Child Development, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Purpose, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Solipsism, Stewardship, Teaching, The Power of God | 72 Comments

Jack on Female Agency

Women need emotional support and constant encouragement, feedback, and guidance to exercise agency. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Chivalry, Collective Strength, Comedy, Communications, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Satire, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Teaching, The Hamster, The Power of God, Trust | 29 Comments

Artisanal Toad on Women’s Agency

Virgins DO NOT have moral agency. Non-virgins DO, under conditions. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Arranged Marriage, Attraction, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Divorce, Ethical Systems, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Near East, Organization and Structure, Paradigms of Religion, Parenting, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Philosophy, Polysexuality, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 200 Comments