Category Archives: Joy

The Meet Cute is not about “women chasing men”

Posted on 2021-11-19 by Jack

A response to Liz’s comment using RedPillBoomer’s story as an example. Continue reading →

Posted in Answered Prayers, Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, IOI's, Joy, Love, Male Power, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Sexual Authority, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 40 Comments

Why challenge the character of your wife?

Posted on 2021-07-07 by Jack

Kindness and Grace are not what we are led to believe. Continue reading →

Posted in Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Confidence, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 80 Comments

Men’s Fantasy of Emotional Intimacy

Posted on 2021-06-23 by Jack

Is it just a solipsistic fantasy, or is this how God intends for men to “love their wives”? Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Introspection, Joy, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Self-Concept, Solipsism, The Power of God | 273 Comments

Patriarchy is the Default Context

Posted on 2021-06-02 by Jack

The easiest way to sell patriarchy is to make it either the best or the only card left to play. Continue reading →

Posted in Building Wealth, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Headship and Patriarchy, Joy, Male Power, Models of Success, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, SEC Studies, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship | 79 Comments

The Greatest Archetype

Posted on 2021-05-21 by Jack

A comparison of Christ and the church with a man and his wife. Continue reading →

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Influence, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 123 Comments

An Interview with American Pilgrim author Roosh Valizadeh

Posted on 2021-03-31 by Jack

“Pursing something for merely material benefits is idolatry, and you will surely be punished for it in this life.” ~ Roosh Valizadeh Readership: Christian Men;Authorship: This interview was conducted by Stephen L. M. Heiner, and the transcript contained in this … Continue reading →

Posted in Animals, Answered Prayers, Attitude, Authenticity, Cathodoxy, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conspiracy Theories, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Homosexuality, Influence, Introspection, Joy, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Politics, Prayer, Protestantism, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Society, The Power of God | 59 Comments

The Christian Marriage Dilemma

Posted on 2021-02-26 by Jack

Marrying a Christian woman won’t necessarily give you a Christian marriage. Continue reading →

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Racial Relations, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, Taiwan, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 118 Comments

Sexual competition continues after marriage

Posted on 2021-02-19 by Jack

Married couples have a duty to remain the apple of the other’s eye. Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Female Power, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 120 Comments

What is Shalom?

Posted on 2020-12-03 by Jack

Shalom is extremely important to God. Continue reading →

Posted in Building Wealth, Discernment, Wisdom, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Joy, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God | 8 Comments

How do Women Glorify God?

Posted on 2020-10-07 by Jack

Women can be leaders, but only under certain conditions. Readership: Men; Female Leadership In these feminized times, it is common for women to assume a position of leadership in politics, government, social movements, and even the church. But this arrangement … Continue reading →

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Glory, Joy, Leadership, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 20 Comments