Category Archives: Sex

The Lie of Romantic Love

How should a man show love to a woman? Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Chivalry, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Ethical Systems, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Society, Sphere of Influence | 9 Comments

Are Men Responsible for Women’s Behavior?

Sorting out the duties and responsiblities from the lies. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Honor, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Parenting, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Teaching, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 61 Comments

Christian Detachment

Not carelessness, but conviction. Readership: AllTheme: Consolidating MasculinityLength: 1,700 wordsReading Time: 9 minutes Men’s Inherent Gynocentrism It has often been said that “Women are the gatekeepers of sex.” It would be better for us to regard the phenomenon behind this axiom with a little … Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God | 23 Comments

How to Assume the Missionary Position

Are you on a mission for God, or for Gynocentrism? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sex, Society, The Power of God | 51 Comments

A Response to GrifterShifter’s Comments

Consolidating one’s Masculinity requires a man to be responsive, knowledgeable, and get the facts right. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Churchianity, Communications, Conflict Management, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Online Personas, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Respect, Science, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, The Hamster | 68 Comments

SMP Paradigms Compared

Stay on target… Stay on target… Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Choosing A Profession, Collective Strength, Competence / Competition, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 66 Comments

Expectations (for LTRs)

A man’s expectations need to be fully in line with his Mission and Purpose. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Discernment, Wisdom, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Parenting, Personal Domain, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 55 Comments

The Path to Contentment

Contentment involves avoiding complacency and agentically choosing to submit one’s self to God as opposed to pursuing self-interest or worldly ambitions. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Autopilot, Building Wealth, Calculated Risk Taking, Competence / Competition, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Desire, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Elite Cultural Influences, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, Masculine Disciplines, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization, Organization and Structure, Overcoming Addictions, Paradigms of Religion, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Power, Prayer, Purpose, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Socio-Economic Class Studies, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 7 Comments

Men’s Role in the Mess

Headship, NOT Hyperagency! Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Authenticity, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Collective Strength, Communications, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Prayer, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, Teaching, Trust | 91 Comments

What we’ve learned about Female Agency

The weaker vessel will give you much trouble in the flesh. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Authenticity, Charisma, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Control, Society, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Trust | 19 Comments