Category Archives: Sanctification & Defilement

Jack on Female Agency

Women need emotional support and constant encouragement, feedback, and guidance to exercise agency. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Chivalry, Collective Strength, Comedy, Communications, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Evo-Psych, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Satire, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Teaching, The Hamster, The Power of God, Trust | 15 Comments

Artisanal Toad on Women’s Agency

Virgins DO NOT have moral agency. Non-virgins DO, under conditions. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Arranged Marriage, Attraction, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Anthropology, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Divorce, Ethical Systems, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Near East, Organization and Structure, Paradigms of Religion, Parenting, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Philosophy, Polysexuality, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 186 Comments

Catacomb Resident on Moral Agency

Female moral agency is limited to the requirements of the biblical Covenant. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Arranged Marriage, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Ethical Systems, Faith Community, Female Power, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Gnosticism, God's Concept of Justice, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Legalism, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Organization and Structure, Personal Domain, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God | 35 Comments

It’s her choice whether or not to submit.

The choices are His way to Headship or the highway to ħɘll. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Charisma, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Determination, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God | 80 Comments

Very few women can be Molded.

Limits to Wife Moulding. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Charisma, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, Teaching, Vetting Women | 41 Comments

Validation is about Losing Self-Control

Humility happens when the Lady’s Libido Lights Up. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Autopilot, Charisma, Churchianity, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Passion, Erotic Blueprints, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Mysticism, Personal Domain, Power, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Taiwan, The Power of God, Trust | 19 Comments

Name it to Change it!

Identifying a transgression poses an implied demand for her to change it. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communication Styles, Communications, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Generational Curses, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Persuasion, Power, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, Teaching, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 20 Comments

Laying out Expectations

…is a powerful way that men install boundaries. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Collective Strength, Communication Styles, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Ethical Systems, Female Evo-Psych, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Health and Fitness, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Parenting, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, The Hamster, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 44 Comments

Laying out Boundaries

…is a powerful way that men install Headship. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Discipline and Molding, Feminism, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Parenting, Psychology, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God | 57 Comments

The Wages of Sin are Paid in Marriage

A history of Sexperience corrodes marriage from the inside out. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attraction, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Denying/Witholding Sex, Enduring Suffering, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Domain, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sex, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Vetting Women | 59 Comments