Category Archives: Sanctification & Defilement

Sexual Authority and Sanctification

What does it mean to “yield authority over one’s body to one’s spouse”? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Charisma, Churchianity, Clothing, Complementarianism, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Denying/Witholding Sex, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline and Molding, Enduring Suffering, Ethical Systems, Female Power, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, The Power of God | 26 Comments

Bad@ss Chad

Winning is everything, but it doesn’t mean anything. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Archetypes, Attraction, Charisma, Confidence, Conserving Power, Determination, Faux-Masculinity, Female Evo-Psych, God's Concept of Justice, Handling Rejection, Hypergamy, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence | 18 Comments

Hexis Cathexis and Voodoo Catharsis

Cathexis bites the bait.  Catharsis reels them in. Continue reading

Posted in Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Culture Wars, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Elite Cultural Influences, Feminism, Gnosticism, Holding Frame, Identity, Individualism, Introspection, Media, News Critique, Persuasion, Politics, Psychology, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept | 3 Comments

No Mo Roe

What’s next? Continue reading

Posted in Abortion and Birth Control, Agency, Collective Strength, Culture Wars, Elite Cultural Influences, Generational Curses, Holding Frame, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Moral Agency, Politics, Psychology, Purpose, Sanctification & Defilement, Strategy, The Power of God, Zeitgeist Reports | 137 Comments

Harnessing the Motivations of Others

Establishing feedback loops that capture her Ego Investment. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Choosing A Profession, Collective Strength, Communications, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Health and Fitness, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 105 Comments

A blinding obsession

…that erodes mens’ senses of discernment. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Boundaries, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Desire, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Legalism, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Psychology, Purity Culture, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, The Power of God | 94 Comments

What Changes after Marriage?

Unrealistic expectations lead to disappointment. Continue reading

Posted in Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Society, Solipsism, Trust, Vetting Women | 29 Comments

Why you will marry the wrong person

Thoughts from Alain de Botton about the nature of love. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Glory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Philosophy, Power, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Society, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Teaching, The Hamster, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 28 Comments

The Sweet Aroma of Love

…is in the freshly F–ed Aura! Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Charisma, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence | Tagged , , | 14 Comments

The Unsolvable Problem of The Modern Sexual/Relationship Market

A broken lock, and a broken key. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women, Zeitgeist Reports | 31 Comments