Category Archives: Discerning Lies and Deception

Infidelity is anything short of fidelity.

Being faithful is not about avoiding sin, but in Glorifying the Lord. Embracing God’s archetype of marriage is one important way to do this. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOCs, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 4 Comments

Rights and Responsibilities within Marriage

The goal is to please God, not to avoid suffering. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Glory, God's Concept of Justice, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Trust | 3 Comments

Is Married Dread Game a transgression of marital vows?

Know thine adversary! Is it your self? Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Complementarianism, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God | 32 Comments

2021 Winter Hibernation

Stay strong and Merry Christmas! Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Charisma, Conflict Management, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Faith Community, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Manosphere, Moral Agency, Music, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Control, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust | 16 Comments

Social Authenticity Proof: Giving Women Attention

Giving women the right kind of attention is a social lubricant. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Charisma, Confidence, Cultural Differences, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Education, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Legalism, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, The Power of God | 16 Comments

Developing Masculinity

Identify what it is you need to step up in your life. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship | 26 Comments

Kumbaya

Translation: “Come by me (my Lord)” Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Authenticity, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Faith Community, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Holding Frame, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Leadership, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Music, Purpose, Sanctification & Defilement, Society, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 5 Comments

No More Mrs. Hot Mess!

Women’s Version of the Covert Contract. Continue reading

Posted in Answered Prayers, Attitude, Boundaries, Communications, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 115 Comments

A Volitional Model of Cascade Courtship

Jack’s theory about how the MMP is supposed to be. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 29 Comments

Women have sex to influence men

A confirmation from a PUA’s perspective. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 98 Comments