Category Archives: Convergence

The Decadent Christian (Ressentimentalism)

When the Beatitudes are a justification for the ignoble. Continue reading

Posted in Abortion and Birth Control, Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Authenticity, Collective Strength, Convergence, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Culture Wars, Faux-Masculinity, Feminism, Holding Frame, Homosexuality, Misogyny, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization, Politics, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Purpose, Racial Relations, Sex, White Wash, Zeitgeist Reports | 32 Comments

The Decadent Christian (Antinomianism)

When Christian Morality is a forgotten discipline. Continue reading

Posted in Collective Strength, Convergence, Decision Making, Faux-Masculinity, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, God's Concept of Justice, Handling Rejection, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Purpose, Self-Concept | 163 Comments

Faux Masculine Archetypes

A prelude to upcoming case studies of faux masculinity. Continue reading

Posted in Archetypes, Convergence, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Fantasy and Illusion, Faux-Masculinity, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Introspection, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Respect, Self-Concept | 68 Comments

Something they didn’t expect

Backlash against a proposed Indian law criminalizing marital rape. Continue reading

Posted in Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, God's Concept of Justice, Headship and Patriarchy, India, Leadership, Male Power, Politics, Purpose, Satire, Society, Zeitgeist Reports | 25 Comments

What Changes after Marriage?

Unrealistic expectations lead to disappointment. Continue reading

Posted in Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Introspection, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Society, Solipsism, Trust, Vetting Women | 27 Comments

Film Review: The Dating Project

Dating is presented as a nonChristian activity that Christians should do. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Convergence, Female Power, Handling Rejection, Introspection, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Trust, Zeitgeist Reports | 14 Comments

The Unsolvable Problem of The Modern Sexual/Relationship Market

A broken lock, and a broken key. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Consent, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women, Zeitgeist Reports | 31 Comments

The Young Man’s Problem

All men struggle with it (or have in the past), but are never permitted to discuss it, much less express it. Continue reading

Posted in Boundaries, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Complementarianism, Conspiracy Theories, Convergence, Culture Wars, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Holding Frame, Introspection, Male Power, Models of Failure, Perseverance, Purity Culture, Purpose, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Society, Stewardship, Zeitgeist Reports | 40 Comments

Blue Pill Arrogance of the 80s

80’s dating as portrayed in films of the era. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Clothing, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Female Power, Feminism, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Indicators of Interest, Introspection, Male Power, Media, Meet Cute, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purity Culture, Relationships, Reviews, Satire, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Socio-Economic Class Studies, Vetting Women | 35 Comments

Infidelity is anything short of fidelity.

Being faithful is not about avoiding sin, but in Glorifying the Lord. Embracing God’s archetype of marriage is one important way to do this. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Indicators of Contempt, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 9 Comments