Category Archives: Overcoming Addictions

The Path to Contentment

Contentment involves avoiding complacency and agentically choosing to submit one’s self to God as opposed to pursuing self-interest or worldly ambitions. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Autopilot, Building Wealth, Calculated Risk Taking, Competence / Competition, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Desire, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Elite Cultural Influences, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, Masculine Disciplines, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization, Organization and Structure, Overcoming Addictions, Paradigms of Religion, Perseverance, Personal Domain, Power, Prayer, Purpose, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Socio-Economic Class Studies, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 7 Comments

Sexy

What makes a woman sexy? Is it incompatible with faith and humility? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Autopilot, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Divorce, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Generational Curses, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Online Personas, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Domain, Personality Types, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Sphere of Influence, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 26 Comments

On Curating a Christian Culture of Attraction

Can sexual attraction be trained or taught? Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline and Molding, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Evo-Psych, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychological Disorders, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sex, Sphere of Influence, Taiwan, Teaching, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 95 Comments

A Summary of Faux-Masculine Archetypes

Assessments, similarities, and rankings. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Antimonianism, Archetypes, Calculated Risk Taking, Churchianity, Communications, Complementarianism, Conflict Management, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Depression, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Faux-Masculinity, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, God's Concept of Justice, Holding Frame, Identity, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Male Power, Masculine Disciplines, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, MGTOW, Incels, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Reviews, Self-Concept, Sphere of Influence, Statistics Reports, Teaching, The Power of God, White Wash, Zeitgeist Reports | 8 Comments

A blinding obsession

…that erodes mens’ senses of discernment. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Boundaries, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Desire, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Legalism, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Psychology, Purity Culture, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, The Power of God | 96 Comments

Why you will marry the wrong person

Thoughts from Alain de Botton about the nature of love. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Calculated Risk Taking, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Fundamental Frame, Generational Curses, Glory, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Philosophy, Power, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Society, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Teaching, The Hamster, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 29 Comments

A Distrusting Woman is a Divorcing Woman

Some women can’t accept Headship, no matter how good they have it. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Overcoming Addictions, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Relationships, Sexual Authority, Strategy, Trust, Vetting Women | 11 Comments

Breaking the Stronghold of Gnosticism

…and hastening the “born again” experience. Continue reading

Posted in Answered Prayers, Attitude, Confidence, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Education, Enduring Suffering, Evangelism, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Gnosticism, Holding Frame, Introspection, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Overcoming Addictions, Perseverance, Philosophy, Purpose, Rites of Passage, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 20 Comments

Carousel Widow in Decline – Part 5

A real time case study of a carousel rider. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Feminism, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Psychological Disorders, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Solipsism, Taiwan, The Hamster, Vetting Women | 38 Comments

Carousel Widow in Decline – Part 4

A snapshot of defilement. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Feminism, Holding Frame, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Psychological Disorders, Respect, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Solipsism, Taiwan, The Hamster, Vetting Women | 161 Comments