Category Archives: Strategy

Game Theory 110 — The Prisoner’s Dilemma

An altruistic strategy is best over the long haul, but not in the beginning, and not for short term interactions. Continue reading

Posted in Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Game Theory, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Power, Psychology, Relationships, Strategy, Vetting Women | 105 Comments

The Christian Conundrum

Caught between Scylla and Charybdis. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Forgiveness, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Hamsterbation, Handling Rejection, Hypergamy, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Strategy, Vetting Women | 172 Comments

The Christian Marriage Dilemma

Marrying a Christian woman won’t necessarily give you a Christian marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Racial Relations, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, Taiwan, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 113 Comments

The Sexual Market IS the Marriage Market

Young people must run the gauntlet of the SMP just to get into the MMP! Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Feminism, Game Theory, Hypergamy, Male Power, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Strategy | 129 Comments

We can’t plant seed in the middle of winter.

No community, no organization, no faith for the future… –> No go. Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Determination, Education, Evangelism, Faith Community, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Headship and Patriarchy, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Society, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 111 Comments

What Hitting Bottom will look like

The final dissolution before reintegration. Continue reading

Posted in Addictions, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Food, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Introspection, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Perseverance, Prayer, Prophecy, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 124 Comments

Something’s not right… (about Sexual Authority)

“Falling in love” with her places you at her behest. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Complementarianism, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | 126 Comments

Making the Most of It

How can a young person find an upward trajectory after a poor start? Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Choosing A Profession, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Holding Frame, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Perseverance, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Strategy | 42 Comments

Lessons from the Train Wreckage

Are outliars truly outliers? Continue reading

Posted in Addictions, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Internet Dating Sites, Leadership, Male Power, Media, Models of Failure, Prayer, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Society, Solipsism, Strategy, Therapeutic Moralistic Deism, Vetting Women | 72 Comments

Now she’s directing her own pro motion!

It’s not about the money (anymore). It’s just for the sheer fun of it all! Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Decision Making, Female Power, Influence, Internet Dating Sites, Media, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sexual Authority, South Africa, Strategy | 16 Comments