Category Archives: Courtship and Marriage

The Christian Conundrum

Caught between Scylla and Charybdis. Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Collective Strength, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Forgiveness, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Hamsterbation, Handling Rejection, Hypergamy, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Strategy, Vetting Women | 172 Comments

Adultery in the Military

Adultery in the military is common, but mostly overlooked, unless it erupts into something bigger. Continue reading

Posted in Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discipline, Manosphere, Military, Relationships | 66 Comments

The Christian Marriage Dilemma

Marrying a Christian woman won’t necessarily give you a Christian marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Racial Relations, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, Taiwan, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 113 Comments

Parental Divorce Ruins Daughters’ Future Marital Commitment and Confidence

Another red flag: If her parents are divorced. Continue reading

Posted in Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Generational Curses, Influence, Models of Failure, Psychology, Relationships, Reviews, Science, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 160 Comments

The Sexual Market IS the Marriage Market

Young people must run the gauntlet of the SMP just to get into the MMP! Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Feminism, Game Theory, Hypergamy, Male Power, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Strategy | 129 Comments

Sexual competition continues after marriage

Married couples have a duty to remain the apple of the other’s eye. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Determination, Female Power, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Health, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 120 Comments

We can’t plant seed in the middle of winter.

No community, no organization, no faith for the future… –> No go. Continue reading

Posted in Building Wealth, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Determination, Education, Evangelism, Faith Community, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Headship and Patriarchy, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Society, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 111 Comments

What Hitting Bottom will look like

The final dissolution before reintegration. Continue reading

Posted in Addictions, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Food, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Introspection, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Perseverance, Prayer, Prophecy, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 124 Comments

The Centrality of Sex in Western Culture

SEX, above all else! Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Desire, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Female Power, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Vetting Women | 194 Comments

Something’s not right… (about Sexual Authority)

“Falling in love” with her places you at her behest. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Complementarianism, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | 126 Comments