Category Archives: IOI’s

Handling an IOI requires a Miracle!

Is it possible for a high SMV Christian man to respond to an IOI in a Christ-like manner? Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, IOI's, Models of Failure, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 16 Comments

Wimmin at the Well

Missionary dating is not what you might think. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Influence, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , | 43 Comments

How to Develop an Attitude of Detachment

Maintaining Frame is the same as setting Socio-Emotional Boundaries. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Confidence, Conserving Power, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , , | 9 Comments

8 Examples of IOI Word Semantics

Women make very subtle hints.  If you miss them, you’re out. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Discernment, Wisdom, Game Theory, Hypergamy, IOI's, Models of Failure, Psychology | Tagged , | 50 Comments