Category Archives: IOI’s

Moral Guidance Based Feedback vs. Sexual Attention

Both are necessary for redemption and sanctification (in marriage). Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Attraction, Boundaries, Charisma, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Communications, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Questions from Readers, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 2 Comments

Summary of the Meet Cute Phenomenon

The Meet Cute is spontaneous, subjective and contextual. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, IOI's, Love, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Sexual Authority, The Power of God | 111 Comments

The Meet Cute is not about “women chasing men”

A response to Liz’s comment using RedPillBoomer’s story as an example. Continue reading

Posted in Answered Prayers, Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, IOI's, Joy, Love, Male Power, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Sexual Authority, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 40 Comments

A Volitional Model of Cascade Courtship

Jack’s theory about how the MMP is supposed to be. Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Meet Cute, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 29 Comments

Carousel Widow in Decline – Part 3

A Case Study of a Carousel Rider in Regression. Continue reading

Posted in Addictions, Attitude, Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Feminism, Hamsterbation, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, IOI's, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Persuasion, Polysexuality, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Solipsism, Strategy, Taiwan | 36 Comments

The Recipe for a Meet Cute

Context Matters! Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Charisma, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game Theory, Glory, Holding Frame, IOI's, Love, Male Power, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 30 Comments

When walking on eggshells, step boldly!

A deeper understanding of the risks and benefits of opening up to a woman. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Confidence, Conflict Management, Determination, Fundamental Frame, Health, Holding Frame, Hypergamy, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Power, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Solipsism, Vetting Women | 174 Comments

Happy Birthday to Scott!

50!!! Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Authenticity, Charisma, Communications, Confidence, Education, Faith Community, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Male Power, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Philosophy, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Stewardship, The Power of God | 25 Comments

8 Things that Increase Discernment

Lacking discernment? This post is for you! Continue reading

Posted in Art Critique, Authenticity, Boundaries, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Prayer, Relationships, Self-Concept, Solipsism | 20 Comments

A Man’s Ability to Read IOIs Depends on Having a Firm Grasp on His Personal Archetypal Mythos

Having a personal Archetypal Mythos forms the foundation of Frame! Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Choosing A Profession, Confidence, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Influence, Introspection, IOI's, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Psychology, Purpose, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 8 Comments