Category Archives: Churchianity

The Christian Marriage Dilemma

Marrying a Christian woman won’t necessarily give you a Christian marriage. Continue reading

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Racial Relations, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, Taiwan, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 113 Comments

Parental Divorce Ruins Daughters’ Future Marital Commitment and Confidence

Another red flag: If her parents are divorced. Continue reading

Posted in Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Generational Curses, Influence, Models of Failure, Psychology, Relationships, Reviews, Science, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 160 Comments

The Sexual Market IS the Marriage Market

Young people must run the gauntlet of the SMP just to get into the MMP! Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Feminism, Game Theory, Hypergamy, Male Power, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Strategy | 129 Comments

What Hitting Bottom will look like

The final dissolution before reintegration. Continue reading

Posted in Addictions, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Food, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Introspection, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Perseverance, Prayer, Prophecy, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 124 Comments

Something’s not right… (about Sexual Authority)

“Falling in love” with her places you at her behest. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Complementarianism, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | 126 Comments

The Soul Mate Myth

Is the hope for a Soul Mate a mythos or a myth? Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Education, Fundamental Frame, Hamsterbation, Models of Failure, Relationships, Self-Concept, Solipsism | 90 Comments

Lessons from the Train Wreckage

Are outliars truly outliers? Continue reading

Posted in Addictions, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Internet Dating Sites, Leadership, Male Power, Media, Models of Failure, Prayer, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Society, Solipsism, Strategy, Therapeutic Moralistic Deism, Vetting Women | 72 Comments

It was god’s will for her to be a stripper.

Come ye, all ye who are hoary and well laiden! Continue reading

Posted in Addictions, Churchianity, Convergence, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Feminism, Hamsterbation, Headship and Patriarchy, Homosexuality, Internet Dating Sites, Media, Models of Failure, News Critique, Sanctification & Defilement, Satire, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Therapeutic Moralistic Deism | 39 Comments

The Slow Train Wreck — a Cautionary Tale

What you don’t know won’t hurt you… until it does! Continue reading

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing A Profession, Churchianity, Clothing, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Female Power, Feminism, Homosexuality, Identity, Influence, Internet Dating Sites, Leadership, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Protestantism, Relationships, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Solipsism, Therapeutic Moralistic Deism, Vetting Women | 42 Comments

On the Ethics of Teenage Marriage

Taking a wider Frame of view is wise, and perhaps necessary. Continue reading

Posted in Child Development, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Feminism, Introspection, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Stewardship, Strategy | 35 Comments