Category Archives: Churchianity

The Christian Marriage Dilemma

Posted on 2021-02-26 by Jack

Marrying a Christian woman won’t necessarily give you a Christian marriage. Continue reading →

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Clothing, Confidence, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Determination, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Feminism, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Game Theory, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Power, Purity Culture, Purpose, Racial Relations, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Stewardship, Strategy, Taiwan, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 113 Comments

Parental Divorce Ruins Daughters’ Future Marital Commitment and Confidence

Posted on 2021-02-24 by Jack

Another red flag: If her parents are divorced. Continue reading →

Posted in Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Generational Curses, Influence, Models of Failure, Psychology, Relationships, Reviews, Science, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 160 Comments

The Sexual Market IS the Marriage Market

Posted on 2021-02-22 by Novaseeker

Young people must run the gauntlet of the SMP just to get into the MMP! Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Female Power, Feminism, Game Theory, Hypergamy, Male Power, Models of Failure, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Society, Strategy | 129 Comments

What Hitting Bottom will look like

Posted on 2021-02-10 by Jack

The final dissolution before reintegration. Continue reading →

Posted in Addictions, Boundaries, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Communications, Conflict Management, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Faith Community, Food, Fundamental Frame, Headship and Patriarchy, Hypergamy, Internet Dating Sites, Introspection, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Perseverance, Prayer, Prophecy, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God | 124 Comments

Something’s not right… (about Sexual Authority)

Posted on 2021-02-05 by Jack

“Falling in love” with her places you at her behest. Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Complementarianism, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, IOI's, Male Power, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | 126 Comments

The Soul Mate Myth

Posted on 2021-02-03 by Jack

Is the hope for a Soul Mate a mythos or a myth? Continue reading →

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Education, Fundamental Frame, Hamsterbation, Models of Failure, Relationships, Self-Concept, Solipsism | 90 Comments

Lessons from the Train Wreckage

Posted on 2021-01-25 by Novaseeker

Are outliars truly outliers? Continue reading →

Posted in Addictions, Authenticity, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Female Power, Feminism, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Holding Frame, Internet Dating Sites, Leadership, Male Power, Media, Models of Failure, Prayer, Relationships, Reviews, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Society, Solipsism, Strategy, Therapeutic Moralistic Deism, Vetting Women | 72 Comments

It was god’s will for her to be a stripper.

Posted on 2021-01-22 by Jack

Come ye, all ye who are hoary and well laiden! Continue reading →

Posted in Addictions, Churchianity, Convergence, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Feminism, Hamsterbation, Headship and Patriarchy, Homosexuality, Internet Dating Sites, Media, Models of Failure, News Critique, Sanctification & Defilement, Satire, Self-Concept, Solipsism, Therapeutic Moralistic Deism | 39 Comments

The Slow Train Wreck — a Cautionary Tale

Posted on 2021-01-18 by Novaseeker

What you don’t know won’t hurt you… until it does! Continue reading →

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Boundaries, Choosing A Profession, Churchianity, Clothing, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Culture Wars, Discernment, Wisdom, Evangelism, Female Power, Feminism, Homosexuality, Identity, Influence, Internet Dating Sites, Leadership, Manosphere, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Media, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Protestantism, Relationships, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Solipsism, Therapeutic Moralistic Deism, Vetting Women | 42 Comments

On the Ethics of Teenage Marriage

Posted on 2020-12-18 by Novaseeker

Taking a wider Frame of view is wise, and perhaps necessary. Continue reading →

Posted in Child Development, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Cultural Differences, Decision Making, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Feminism, Introspection, Organization and Structure, Purpose, Relationships, Stewardship, Strategy | 35 Comments