Category Archives: SMV/MMV

Handling an IOI requires a Miracle!

Is it possible for a high SMV Christian man to respond to an IOI in a Christ-like manner? Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, IOI's, Models of Failure, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 16 Comments

How to Develop an Attitude of Detachment

Maintaining Frame is the same as setting Socio-Emotional Boundaries. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Confidence, Conserving Power, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Female Power, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Holding Frame, Identity, Inner Game, Introspection, IOI's, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Personal Presentation, Power, Psychology, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, The Power of God | Tagged , , , | 9 Comments

Some like it Hot

Different men get different responses from different women. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Female Power, Game Theory, Models of Success, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 10 Comments

Having an Attractive Attitude in Serving

Having the right attitude goes a long way towards becoming a recipient of a blessing. Continue reading

Posted in Attitude, Attraction, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Faith Community, Game Theory, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | Tagged , , , | 9 Comments

Being Attractive in Service

What makes you attractive is who you are, not what you do. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Authenticity, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Courtship and Marriage, Game Theory, Glory, Influence, Joy, Love, Male Power, Models of Success, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged , , , | 14 Comments

Sanctification and Sexual Compatibility

Are sanctification and sexual compatibility exclusive of each other? Continue reading

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, Sanctification & Defilement, SMV/MMV, Stewardship, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 44 Comments

Humility and Defilement

Could humility be equivalent to defilement? Continue reading

Posted in Identity, Sanctification & Defilement, SMV/MMV | Tagged | 4 Comments

Looking at the Essentials

Young people need to think on two (or more) planes when selecting a mate. Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Holding Frame, Introspection, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Relationships, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, Strategy, Vetting Women | Tagged | 49 Comments

On the Definition of Virginity

Has our modern culture confused us about what it means to be a virgin? Continue reading

Posted in Purity Culture, Sanctification & Defilement, SMV/MMV | Tagged | 12 Comments

Things men found attractive 50 years ago are still attractive today.

Women are averse to admit what men find attractive. Continue reading

Posted in Asia, Attraction, Clothing, Culture Wars, Female Power, Feminism, Hamsterbation, Personal Presentation, SMV/MMV, Solipsism | Tagged | 5 Comments