Category Archives: Adultery and Fornication

The Decadent Christian (Ressentimentalism)

When the Beatitudes are a justification for the ignoble. Continue reading

Posted in Abortion and Birth Control, Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Authenticity, Collective Strength, Convergence, Counterfeit/False Paradigms, Culture Wars, Faux-Masculinity, Feminism, Holding Frame, Homosexuality, Misogyny, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization, Politics, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Purpose, Racial Relations, Sex, White Wash, Zeitgeist Reports | 32 Comments

A Clarification on Fornication

Just to be clear. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Attitude, Communications, Desire, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Gnosticism, Holding Frame, Introspection, Legalism, Masturbation, Models of Failure, Psychology, Purity Culture, Purpose, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Self-Control | 51 Comments

A blinding obsession

…that erodes mens’ senses of discernment. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Boundaries, Conserving Power, Decision Making, Desire, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Enduring Suffering, Fantasy and Illusion, Fundamental Frame, Holding Frame, Intersexual Dynamics, Introspection, Legalism, Masturbation, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Overcoming Addictions, Personal Domain, Personal Presentation, Psychology, Purity Culture, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Self-Control, The Power of God | 93 Comments

Film Review: The Dating Project

Dating is presented as a nonChristian activity that Christians should do. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Convergence, Female Power, Handling Rejection, Introspection, Models of Failure, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Purpose, Relationships, Reviews, Running the Gauntlet, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, Trust, Zeitgeist Reports | 14 Comments

Denying sex to one’s spouse is porneia.

Fidelity must include regular sexual intercourse, as willingly promised. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Persuasion, Power, Psychological Disorders, Psychology, Relationships, Sexual Authority, Solipsism, Sphere of Influence | 54 Comments

Infidelity is anything short of fidelity.

Being faithful is not about avoiding sin, but in Glorifying the Lord. Embracing God’s archetype of marriage is one important way to do this. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Authenticity, Boundaries, Child Development, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Conserving Power, Convergence, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Education, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Feminism, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Indicators of Contempt, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Respect, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God, Trust, Vetting Women | 9 Comments

Rights and Responsibilities within Marriage

The goal is to please God, not to avoid suffering. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Collective Strength, Conserving Power, Courtship and Marriage, Decision Making, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Discipline, Fundamental Frame, Glory, God's Concept of Justice, Headship and Patriarchy, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, Strategy, The Power of God, Trust | 5 Comments

Is Married Dread Game a transgression of marital vows?

Know thine adversary! Is it your self? Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Agency, Attitude, Attraction, Authenticity, Boundaries, Charisma, Complementarianism, Confidence, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discerning Lies and Deception, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Enduring Suffering, Female Power, Fundamental Frame, Game, Game Theory, Handling Rejection, Headship and Patriarchy, Health and Fitness, Holding Frame, Inner Game, Introspection, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Organization and Structure, Personal Presentation, Polysexuality, Power, Purpose, Relationships, Self-Concept, Self-Control, Sexual Authority, SMV/MMV, Sphere of Influence, Stewardship, The Power of God | 36 Comments

What constitutes Adultery?

When sex is abused in such a way that the joy and intimacy of the sexual relationship is ruined between man and wife. Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Boundaries, Child Development, Courtship and Marriage, Divorce, Forgiveness, Glory, Introspection, Models of Failure, Mysticism, Purpose, Relationships, Sanctification & Defilement, Trust | 44 Comments

Towards a more complete appreciation of Sanctification

“This is my husband.”  “This is my wife.” “Til death do us part.” …and grateful for it all! Continue reading

Posted in Adultery and Fornication, Boundaries, Building Wealth, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Churchianity, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Divorce, Forgiveness, Glory, Headship and Patriarchy, Identity, Introspection, Joy, Love, Models of Failure, Moral Agency, Mysticism, Personal Presentation, Purpose, Relationships, Running the Gauntlet, Sanctification & Defilement, Self-Concept, SMV/MMV, The Power of God, Vetting Women | 15 Comments