Author Archives: Scott

How to open up the topic of personality disorders in conversation

Posted on 2021-01-02 by Scott

What are the presuppositions that you must work through before discussing personality pathology? Continue reading →

Posted in Disorders, Health, Introspection, Psychology, Relationships | 8 Comments

Abandonment Issues

Posted on 2020-12-19 by Scott

Does your significant other start a fight every time you walk out the door? Continue reading →

Posted in Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Disorders, Psychology, Relationships, Vetting Women | 29 Comments

Scott on Forgiveness

Posted on 2020-11-25 by Scott

There is an intermediate step between a wrongdoing and forgiveness. Continue reading →

Posted in Enduring Suffering, Forgiveness, Holding Frame, Introspection, Models of Success, Moral Agency, Perseverance, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Concept, The Power of God | 4 Comments

The 4 Big Lies of ‘Christian’ Therapeutic Moralistic Deism

Posted on 2020-11-19 by Scott

Therapeutic Moralistic Deism has infiltrated modern Christianity. Continue reading →

Posted in Cathodoxy, Churchianity, Convergence, Discerning Lies and Deception, Enduring Suffering, Forgiveness, Fundamental Frame, Glory, Hamsterbation, Introspection, Love, Models of Failure, Psychology, Self-Concept, Solipsism | 9 Comments

We Marry Our Own Cross

Posted on 2020-05-18 by Scott

The frustration of marital incompatibility is intended to produce Christ in us. Continue reading →

Posted in Attitude, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Collective Strength, Conflict Management, Courtship and Marriage, Discernment, Wisdom, Education, Enduring Suffering, Holding Frame, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Perseverance, Purpose, Relationships, The Power of God | Tagged , | 7 Comments

It’s the worst system in the world, except for all the others

Posted on 2020-05-13 by Scott

Patriotic cop makes a stand against big government.  Will it matter in the long run? Continue reading →

Posted in Attitude, Authenticity, Collective Strength, Conspiracy Theories, Culture Wars, Determination, Freedom, Personal Liberty, Handling Rejection, Influence, Leadership, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Perseverance, Politics | Tagged , , | 18 Comments

Life education beats the smarm

Posted on 2020-05-06 by Scott

Scott explains how children can learn much more of life while out of school. Continue reading →

Posted in Authenticity, Child Development, Collective Strength, Confidence, Cultural Differences, Discipline, Education, Influence, Leadership, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Purpose, Relationships, Stewardship | Tagged , , | 12 Comments

How I discovered that I wanted to be married

Posted on 2020-04-27 by Scott

Scott tells the story of how he came to see himself as a happily married man.  Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Love, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Success, Purpose, Relationships | Tagged | 21 Comments

Opportunities

Posted on 2020-02-26 by Scott

Missing milestones seems pretty hard to overcome. Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Confidence, Discernment, Wisdom, Male Power, Maturity, Personal Growth and Development, Models of Failure, Models of Success, Purpose, Relationships, Strategy, The Power of God, Vetting Women | Tagged , , | 65 Comments

Probabilities

Posted on 2020-02-24 by Scott

How much marital bliss can be expected after 10 years? Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Choosing a Partner or Spouse, Courtship and Marriage, Desire, Desire, Passion, Discernment, Wisdom, Love, Male Power, Models of Success, Psychology, Relationships, Science, The Power of God, Vetting Women | Tagged , | 85 Comments