In celebration of her collision with reality!
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Tomi Lahren’s birthday is August 11, 1992! So she turns 29 today! Sappy Wall Day, Tomi! We here at the Manosphere are remembering you on your special day!
This is a very special day in your life, because this is the day that you have officially hit the Wall! In fact, 29 is a very special age which lasts for a decade, because for the next ten years, you will (claim to) be 29.
Today is also the one-year anniversary of the day you gained a special place of notoriety in our hearts and minds, forever lodging a place for yourself in the Trad Thot Hall of Shame.
This post is dedicated to the celebration of Lahren’s 29th birthday and to review her contribution to Manospherian lore.
A little history.
Lahren attended college at the University of Nevada at Las Vegas, where she studied broadcast journalism. One of her early pieces was a glowing article for the Review-Journal about a fellow student who had turned to stripping for financial reasons.
In 2014 (age 21), Lahren finished college. She was rejected by The Blaze, but was picked up by One America News Network and given her own show, On Point. She gains fame by taking on controversial topics (e.g. B L M, immigration, gun laws, Colin Kapernick, etc.) from a conservative viewpoint.
In 2015 (age 22), Lahren lived in San Diego and her then boyfriend was a Navy Seal.
In November 2015, she moved to Texas and began a new show with The Blaze, which ended with a 3 minute summary, Final Thoughts.
She was an open supporter of fracking and claimed that climate change is a myth.
She was also a vocal opponent of stricter gun control and is staunchly pro-military,
Lahren claimed that she is a leading voice for conservative and Republican Millennials. At the same time, she has also ripped into her own demographic, saying Millennials are lazy and calling Millennial men “soft.”
On March 17, 2017 (age 24), Lahren made a guest appearance on The View in which she said that women should have access to abortion. By coming out as pro-abortion, Lahren blew up her career on “The Blaze”. One wonders why, exactly, a “conservative” young professional woman, at age 24, would suddenly change her stance on abortion? Why would she decide that supporting abortion would become so important it was worth losing her job and might possibly destroy her career? What could have caused that? And what might it explain about her enormous spite towards all men?
Of course it is pure speculation, but I think it might be because she herself elected to have an abortion around that time and she was about to be outed as a hypocrite.
In August 2017, Lahren joined Fox News as a contributor.
In June 2019, Lahren became engaged to a sports management professional named Brandon Fricke. Contrary to many reports, the Brandon Fricke who was Tomi Lahren’s fiancé is NOT a professional soccer player. That’s a different Brandon Fricke. Lahren’s ex-Fricke is a professional sports agent.
Fricke has a master’s degree from Arizona State. He works as an agent for professional athletes. He’s a “Jerry Maguire”. He ran for Congress in California as an independent.
Fricke for Congress: Meet Brandon
Four years after, his page has not been updated to reflect his split with Lahren!
The guy is a tall, handsome, educated professional with money. The guy bought her an engagement ring estimated at $50,000. Then one year later, she broke up with him, and then all hәll broke loose.
MSN (Robyn Merrett): Tomi Lahren calls off engagement to fiancée Brandon Fricke: ‘We are still best friends’ (2020 April 30)
In June 2020, she came out in favor of same sex marriage.
Let that sink in, y’all. The entire gamut of Red Pill lore rolled up in un jeune fille — Attention seeking, the Feminine Imperative, Machiavellianism, solipsism, cognitive dissonance, hyperactive hamstering, psychological projection, bait and switch, hypergamy, branch swinging… and now the proverbial Wall loometh!
She had a man who was literally everything she claims to want. Handsome. In shape. Successful. Has his sh!t together. Got something going on. Fricke was, and is, literally EVERYTHING she says she wants. And she told him to go Fricke himself!
SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM!!!
She had the chance to be married to a fine man — a top 0.1% man! But she backed out. Why?
Women really really want to get married, but actually, they don’t want to BE married, because it removes them from the SMP and pressures them to grow up. Lahren makes this perfectly clear. They just want to have “married” on their life resume. Once they have that checked off their bucket list, they’ll throw it away on a whim, as evidenced by the data. (40% of marriages end in divorce, with 70% of these initiated by the woman.)
Vive le glorieux carrousel!
This shows what is most important to her. It’s not marriage, nor having an alpha man, not money, not status, and not even having a fine c0ck to shinny her muff on when it’s cold and snowy outside. Neither quality nor quantity will fill her bill.
No, she wants CHOICE, and she’ll hold on to her options as long as she can… until she has no other options! She likes to play god, to be the lord of her own candy@ss fantasyland life. It’s “Me first!”, all the way to perdition.
Her Christianity is only a cultural identification, as NovaSeeker described in The Amalgamation of Western Culture (2020 December 2).
This is the reason why she cannot empathize with the needs of the men in her life. She doesn’t care what they want, because that would require humility. According to her world view, men should bow down and worship her god of Choice — herself. So yes, it is impossible for her to ever be an obedient Christian in any meaningful context of marriage. She has defiled herself with the world and will never achieve a God glorifying Headship marriage.
It’s probably better for her not to marry at all. She can continue to pursue this illusion of choice, and she won’t defraud any man she might have otherwise married, and then ruin his life with a frivorce when she finds out that it isn’t what she needs most in life.
Here is Tomi Lahren’s epic rantage (2020 August 6). The indignant feminist boilerplate is obnoxious, but the butthurt is delicious.
This is the screed of a woman nearing 30 who suddenly demands a serious man, after years of enjoying the attentions of many non-serious men, and is frustrated to find that these men and younger lasses alike disobey her and her aging friends, and still act in the ways that help them to quickly bed down like they used to do.
There’s not much more to it.
In this video, she repeatedly uses the term “Thotiana” derisively. At first, I thought this was a feminist variation of the relatively new term Thot (which I think was coined by Roosh about a year ago.) But after reviewing Tomi’s rant and researching this a little further, I realized that my first impression of the term Thotiana was mistaken. Tatiana is a common name in Eastern European countries (i.e. Latvia, Moldova, Estonia, Poland, etc.). These women come from a traditional patriarchal society, and there is also a skewed sex ratio in those countries resulting in many women without a man.
So now I’ve come to see that Thotiana is an envious Feminist slur against these Eastern European women who have the reputation of being thin, feminine, and marriage minded. In some instances, the usage of the term Thotiana is wrong. Lahren is a high-class Thot, but not a Thotiana.
Manosphere Blog Posts
For those readers who might take great joy in remembering Tomi’s self-destruction, I’ve collected a looong list of links and videos of the schadenfreudian variety.
- Spawny’s Space (Farm Boy): A Lot Of Men Are Trash — Part I (2020 August 7)
- Spawny’s Space (Farm Boy): A Lot Of Men Are Trash — Part II (2020 August 9)
- Spawny’s Space (Jack): A Lot Of Men Are Trash — Part III (2020 August 10)
- Mogadishu Matt: Team Tomi Lahren vs. Team Man (2020 August 10)
- Red Pill Dad: Tomi Lahren, ladies…welcome to the #metoo of hypergamy. (2020 August 10)
In the above link, Red Pill Dad wrote five takeaways for Tomi Lahren and her cohorts.
- Before you complain about a man, remember: you chose to date him.
- Ladies: your success and money doesn’t matter to men. We literally don’t care, and I mean literally, as in actually, factually, in reality, we don’t give AF about how much money or status you have.
- Men won’t commit to a relationship unless it’s an obvious win for them.
- Feminine love and attention is the missing ingredient.
- Hypergamy cuts both ways; yes, it’s bad for most men, but it’s also, in the long run, bad for women too, especially re: commitment.
- The Hominist Papers: Tomi Lahren Clings to Stereotypes of Manhood (2020 August 11)
- The Rational Male: The Empress has no Clothes (2020 August 11)
In the above link, Rollo wrote,
“Tomi Lahren is a Feminist in the truest sense of the term. In one breath she screams men are trash, and in the next she claims to love men. This is the cognitive dissonance that generations of feminism embeds in women. Years of socio-psychological upbringing trains them to distrust, despise and emancipate themselves from men, while at the same time their evolved, biological, mental firmware cries in frustration for a need of men to love, protect, provide and sexually satisfy them.
This inner conflict becomes more and more stressful as this generation of young women approach the Epiphany Phase. One conflicting shift I see among this crop of young women is a greater, and earlier, awareness that they will be less likely to optimize Hypergamy with an acceptable, elite, man they are taught to believe they all deserve. Settling for anything less than optimal is anathema to the Strong Independent Woman ideal; settling for a suboptimal man is the main source of inner conflict for the Equal-but-Better expectations women place on today’s admittedly lacking men.
This is what Tomi is screaming and crying about.”
- Whores and Ale: Woes of the Basic Bitch (2020 August 11)
- Mogadishu Matt: Tomi Lahren Posting and Video Roundup (2020 August 12)
- The Transformed Wife: Men Should Prioritize Career Women? (2020 August 12)
- Roosh V: Tomi Lahren And The Tragedy Of Modern Dating (2020 August 17)
- Didact’s Reach: Tradthot is Thot (2020 August 19)
- Snapper TRX: How to Avoid Marriage (or relationships in general) (2020 August 24)
- The Other McCain: What’s Wrong With Tomi Lahren? (2020 November 12)
Also, see comments about Lahren under this post.
- Σ Frame: The Learning Psychology of Women who Participate in the Online Amateur Sex Industry (2021 January 13)
Rich Cooper takes on Tomi Lahren. (2020 August 5)
Tomi Lahren and Rollo Tomassi, with his catchquote, “Tomi knows how to look feminine. But she doesnt know how to be feminine.” (2020 August 5).
Aba and Preach: Tomi Lahren teaches us how to be “Real Men” (2020 August 6)
Joker at Better Bachelor: Her Facebook rant goes viral. Sounds like the princess got her heart broken (2020 August 6)
Coach Greg Adams at Free Agent Lifestyle: Tomi Lahren Glitches and Cancels Men. The Conservative News Host Turns Liberal for a Moment? (2020 August 7)
Joker at Better Bachelor: Poor Tomi, even women are now telling her she’s the problem, not men. (2020 August 11)
Rich Cooper: Why Tomi Lahren Keeps Throwing Childish Hissy Fits… (2020 August 18)
Terrence Popp: Tomi Lahren Thinks Men Are Trash (2020 August 21)
Joker at Better Bachelor: She left her husband of 5 months, found out he was really rich and just testing her. She failed! (2020 April 27)
Readers are welcome to add other links and videos in the comments.
- USA Today (Daniel Funke): 5 Things to Know about Tomi Lahren (2016 December 2)
- Infogalactic: Tomi Lahren
- Deti gave us some other facts about Lahren.
- Campus Reform (Dion J. Pierre): Clemson University students fight to ban ‘racist’ Tomi Lahren from campus (2021 March 25)