The Online Amateur Sex Industry is the new designer drug – a quicker, easier fix to check out from society – and it actually pays $$$ (if you’re a contributor)!
Reader’s Note: This post continues discussing The Rise of the Amateur Sex Industry (2021 January 4). Readers may like to read this post first before continuing.
In this series, prostitution is defined as the sale of either (1) sexual services, (2) faux relationships (calculated by the hour, number of messages, etc.), or (3) personalized, self-produced, sexually titillating media content — for cash.
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Women have fundamental needs that can morph into cravings for things like male attention, securing a steady income, having material resources, getting social acceptance and affirmation, and… <ahem> …and sex (preferably with a high SMV man). These are all real needs that women have, especially younger women.*
Presently, there exists a few varieties of life trajectories that are designed to coopt the human propensity towards habit and knock out these needs.
- The marriage and children route.
- The college and career route (AKA Phase 1 of the Feminist Life Script).
- The Online Amateur Sex Industry and Socialization (OASIS) / pop sensation route (e.g. Instagram, Tumblr, OnlyFans, etc.).
Of note, a large percentage of women try to wing it with some combination of the above.
God’s plan for marriage is designed to satisfy all these needs in a proper, fitting, efficient, and enduring manner. But even though God’s way is the best way to do so, young women will not choose to follow this path unless it is impressed upon them. Given free reign, when young women latch on to the notion that marriage is not something to be prioritized while they are young, then they can be easily convinced to try either option (2) or (3), especially when there are strong incentives to do so.
Now, just imagine if you will, that there now existed some new technology that could allow a woman to simply flip a switch, punch some buttons, and talk to herself, and have all these needs met – just like that! She could even enjoy watching TV or drinking a latte while she’s at it!
This technology is now upon us! If you have been following along for the last couple weeks, you will know this to be option (3).
As Deti put it,
“This is women doing what they need to do to get commitment or facsimiles/imitations thereof. They have sex with Chad, immediately and for free (because if she won’t do it, another woman will and she’ll miss her longshot chance to lock him down), and then make everyone else wait for it and pay for it. But instead of “paying” with time, dinners, and commitment, they are making men pay cold hard cash for pictures, videos, and an hour or two of masturbating into a starfishing college student’s vagina. They’ve got to get that cash somehow. Chad ain’t coughing it up, there’s no Dad; and the bottom 80% beta bux guys are still getting cooked and fixed up. Paul and Ernie are years away from being ready, nor even considered.”
This present state of human affairs is an advanced symptom of the sexual revolution. When love and trust evaporate, then human interaction boils down to a series of transactions in order to fulfill needs. The needs will not budge, and if people will not trust God to fulfill those needs, then they are reduced to bartering and various power plays in order to satisfy those needs.
* For older women who have achieved all of the aforementioned needs, there arises the precocious need for gossip, wine, and cats, especially among lonely spinsters.
How Women get Hooked on the OASIS
It’s quite easy for a woman to break into the amateur sex industry by showcasing her skin on Instagram or starting up an OnlyFans account.
A previous post, Why is the online amateur sex industry attractive to women? (2021 January 6), iterated a few of things that a woman can become addicted to in this activity, including the following.
- The attention.
- The simple, easy, relaxed lifestyle.
- The steady income, and for some women, this income is significant – enough to retire on.
After a woman gets a taste of having all her carnal needs fulfilled through this life of ease, combined with the ego-affirming attention and the supplementary income that it generates, you can imagine how quickly she would learn to adapt to this new lifestyle, even to the point of developing behavioral addictions to this end.
NovaSeeker’s last post, The Slow Train Wreck — a Cautionary Tale (2021 January 18) presented a poignant case study of this phenomenon.
Fellow blogger, R. P. McMurphy at Red Pill Dad, also illustrated this dynamic in his post, Sex positivity and why single dads are different from single moms (2020 December 27). He wrote,
“As I note in the original piece, once a chick goes down that road for say, more than a few months – [she] begins to live and rely on the money she earns as a hooker or cam girl or selling nudes – she’ll undergo a change in her basic psychology where she HAS to get money for sex. Like, even when she wants to f*ck a guy just because she’s attracted to him, she’ll still end up looking for an angle to get money out of him, whether it’s getting him to buy her stuff, or use his car, give her drugs and alcohol, etc.”
“And that’s how strippers, sex workers, and hookers work once they’ve gone down the path of using their sex to make money – they have a very hard time viewing sex as something that can or should be done without a connection to wealth or provisioning.
This is also why there’s not much of a difference between a prostitute who actually has sex with guys and a chick on OnlyFans who just masturbates in front of a camera or sells nudes – or a sugar baby for that matter. Because at the end of the day, she’s still using her p*ssy for money, and thus the connection between sex and money is created and embedded in her psyche and relationship to sexuality.
That’s the moral hazard that exists with prostitution, and why I feel bad for all the young chicks who are now trying their luck on OnlyFans to make a cheap buck, trading away the opportunity for love and children and some sort of career down the line, to sell sex for money; a short-lived career of objectification and depravity.
The Nature of Behavioral Addictions
A lot has been said about how low quality or otherwise very frustrated men become addicted to pornography, how it lowers their self-esteem, and fosters in them an unhealthy view of sex and women in general. But we never hear about female problems with behavioral addictions.
Behavioral addiction is defined as a compulsion to engage in a non-substance-related behavior that is both rewarding and reinforcing. The behavior is continued despite any negative consequences to the person’s physical, mental, social, spiritual, or financial well-being. Common behavioral addictions include the following. 
- Attention seeking behavior
- Codependent relationships
- Exercise addiction
- Food addiction
- Gambling addiction
- Internet addiction
- Love addiction
- Porn addiction
- Sex addiction
- Shopping addiction
- Tattoo addiction
- Video game addiction
- Work addiction
Looking over the list above, we find that OASIS could involve at least 4, and as many as 9 of these common behavioral addictions! That’s a very toxic brew!
Even so, there must be something that would motivate a woman to develop a behavioral addiction (or any addiction for that matter).
Deti pointed out,
“Conventional social media and the attention these women will get at church and elsewhere, are the “gateway drugs” so to speak.”
Ame added to the list of the ‘gateway drugs’ to OASIS.
- A rigid upbringing with legalistic rules with no grace or reason, rigid college, liberal seminary, liberal church that worships attractive, articulate women. (Do you think a fat, ugly woman with the same gift of speaking would have the same opportunity?!)
- The desire to know and be everything to everyone (that I desire to be known and important to).
- A world with no boundaries that worships engaging women.
- The ability to set her children aside to tone her body and to distribute her body for praise and money behind the veil of a computer.
Treatment for these behavioral addictions might include ,
- Cognitive behavioral therapy
- Group therapy
- One-on-one or couples counseling
- Self-help groups
But given the self-reinforcing nature of OASIS, it is doubtful that any women would ever repent, especially after she has been mired in the quicksand joys of self-aggrandizing defilement.
How bad could it be?
There is a spectrum of how far women will venture to wade into the slimy cesspool of the OASIS.
- Mark Una: Some simply post photos of themselves, fully clad (photography).
- Mark Twain: Others pose for nude shots (soft core pornography).
- Mark Triad: Some post videos of raunchy content (hard core pornography).
- Depth Charge: A few will hook up with their e-johns for a significant cash infusion (conventional prostitution).
- Cherry Blossom: Women who possess exquisite feminine wiles are the crème de la crème of the OASIS. The type of skilled labor required to be the modern equivalent of a Comfort girl or Geisha demands real emotional work. However, as we have noted in past case studies, this type of labor is also not without hefty rewards. (Sugar babies and “kept” women, AKA concubines)
Concerning the last type, in ages past, many middle to upper class women would do this much for her husband as an expression of love and respect for her husband (i.e. life trajectory 1 described in the introduction). But these days, a woman will only do this either (1) to create a slim chance to hook up with Chad (life trajectory 2), or (2) for a thousand e-boys paying cash into a secure online account (life trajectory 3).
The problem with this new setup, as we have learned, is that it involves diving into the online amateur sex industry and socialization (OASIS), which is basically some brand of prostitution.
McMurphy’s post mentions how OASIS can set women into a mindset of sex = money, which leads them into spiritual poverty.
“…a chick who’s selling her @$$ on OnlyFans or working as an escort isn’t doing what she’s doing because she likes sex – she may like sex, or be a chick who skews sl*tty – but she’s doing what she’s doing FOR MONEY.”
This is why I’ve been saying that a woman’s involvement in OASIS is a form of prostitution. McMurphy also mentions how many online prostitutes have problems with substance addiction.
“And let’s also remember: the kinds of men who regularly pay for OnlyFans, cam girls, prostitutes or frequent strip clubs aren’t generally speaking, high quality men. They’re lonely, sad, often addicted to substances, or young guys who behave more like boys than men – and because they’re paying for the chick’s services, they don’t really respect her either. In other words, the life of 95% of sex workers isn’t exciting or glamorous or honestly all that lucrative… it’s just sad and degrading.
And this is why most chicks won’t do it, and why those who do will always be looked on by society with a mixture of pity and disgust – also why […] you DO NOT want to get into an LTR or marry these chicks.”
As the old adage goes (which answers the question of how social media companies can offer their services for free),
“If you don’t have to pay for the service, then YOU are the product!”
As we already know, Fartbook and other social media platforms sell the users’ data to marketing specialists, and this is how they can offer their social networking service for FREE! Well, this is also true for OnlyFans creators. The reason it pays $$$, is because these women are the product that is being sold, in the form of pornographic photographs, videos, and chat sessions.
Modern culture, including the churchian sub-culture, makes it all too easy for young women to fall into unhealthy behaviors and form habits that feed these needs, and then become emotionally and psychologically dependent on the fix. Hence why I call it a behavioral addiction.
Once a woman has had it so easy, it’s really tough for her to kick the habit and go back to God’s proscribed order for living. Concerning this aspect of human nature, Ed Hurst wrote,
“Making people angry about their slavery won’t make them suddenly transform into rebels. They have to value liberty more than comfort, and that describes only a tiny thin slice of humanity.”
From a spiritual perspective, an ever increasing number of our nation’s daughters are giving themselves over to wh0redom, and soon, the entire nation will be defiled (Leviticus 19:29). Meanwhile, the church is in denial and does nothing to prevent or counteract this development.
Move over Victorian religiosity of the 19th century, and Therapeutic Moralistic Deism of the 20th … Behold! OASIS is the new opium for the 21st century masses!
- Very Well Mind (Elizabeth Hartney): An Overview of Behavioral Addiction (2020 September 17)
- Red Pill Dad: Why Prostitution will always be a shameful job – including OnlyFans (2020 December 22)