Things men found attractive 50 years ago are still attractive today.

Women are averse to admit what men find attractive.

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I came across this feminist leaning article which paints several manifestations of the traditional archetype as hopelessly outdated – but in fact, they are not.

The List (Christine-Marie Liwag Dixon): Surprising things men found attractive 50 years ago (2018 January 17)

The hamster is high on this one, so we’re going to knock the rpm’s down a few thousand cycles.

The problems with this article could be summarized as follows.

  • A. It claims that some things were attractive 50 years ago, when in fact they were not.
  • B. It claims that some things were attractive 50 years ago, but that they aren’t now, when in fact they still are.
  • C. It claims that some things that have always been attractive should not be considered attractive.
  • D. It was always attractive, but the article tries to politicize the reasons why.

To identify the error, each of the following examples is followed by A, B, C, or D.

Lighter Skin (C)

skin tone

The article makes the case that having a preference for lighter skin is evidence of racism and discrimination.  But having this preference is not limited to whites nor western culture.  This is true for Asians too.  In fact, most cultures worldwide prefer lighter skin, so it’s really about aesthetics, not racism.  This is proven by the fact that skin whitening cream is the most popular cosmetic product worldwide.  Even within the black community, lighter skin is considered more attractive.

Rail-Thin Bodies (B)

Voluptuous, hourglass bodies have always been considered the icon of female attractiveness.  This hasn’t changed, and it never will.  I believe the preference for thinner women since Twiggy hit the scene in the 60’s is a response to increasing obesity.  There’s also the fact that thinner women tend to age better.

Flat Chests (A)

The argument offered for this claim is pretty short and weak.  The important thing to men is that a woman’s breasts are attractive.  Breasts are attractive if they are symmetrical, round, plump, firm, and supple (no sagging and no cellulite).  In other words, youthful and healthy.  Size is secondary to the overall presentation, but it receives more attention because it’s more obvious in fully clothed women.  Women care more about size than men do.

Flat Butts (A)

Przybyszewski wrote that the fear of cellulite caused women to do anything they could to eliminate “what they identified as water, wastes, and fat trapped inside women’s hips and thighs.”

There’s a big difference between being fit and sleek, and having jiggly cottage cheese spilling out of her clothing.  The word “flat” does not describe this difference.

The desire for more boyish figures was not entirely to please men or to conform to fashion.  Battleground: The Media, edited by Robin Andersen and Jonathan Alan Gray, noted that “the changing shape of women’s bodies has in many ways served to reflect larger cultural values.” Throughout history, “a thin, straight figure was prized” at times “when women were striving to demonstrate their equality.”

Whatever…  A thin, straight figure is prized by women in other women who value “equality” because men prefer a voluptuous package.

Exposed Legs (B)

In Fashion: A History from the 18th to the 20th Century, Akiko Fukai wrote that “the young found that displaying their physique was the most effective means of setting themselves apart from the older generation.”

The article implies that this social movement was an act of rebellion, which I interpret as the psychological projection of the author.  But in fact, physiological and generational differences exist nonetheless.  In Asia, showing a lot of leg is the universal cultural signal of youth, beauty, and fertility.  Westerners tend to focus more on breastyness and cleavage.

Androgyny (A)

Coinciding with the preference for more boyish figures was the rise of unisex clothing and androgynous styles.  This echoed a similar trend from the 1920’s, when “androgyny [began to be] associated with the search for greater independence for women,” wrote Rebecca Arnold in Fashion, Desire and Anxiety: Image and Morality in the 20th Century.  Arnold wrote that the rise of androgyny in the 1960’s helped to “denote freedoms gained and the rejection of a preceding claustrophobic femininity.”

Heh…  The article makes it seem as though men liked and wanted this change.

I remember from the 1970’s, that “greater independence for women” was interpreted and understood to mean “more emotional independence equals maturity”, as in, not being “clingy”, dependent on a man.  Looking back, I see this was a deceptive attack on humility.

When I was in college, I dated more than a few women who were disgusted by their feelings of natural attraction for me, and overtly apologized for being too clingy.  When I told them that I actually enjoyed the affection, they interpreted my honest humility negatively as neediness.

The Lolita Look (B)

…”prepubescent look”.  Lithe, young-looking Lolita types like Twiggy dominated the fashion world.  This “look of exaggerated youthfulness expressed the associated sensibility that maturity, in dress or behavior, was a dirty word, a sign of premature death, and therefore something to be warded off as long as possible”.

Feminism used the SMV of youth to separate the ideas that fertility (youth) and emotional maturity are both attractive.  This was truly confusing to younger men.

Going Braless (D)

I clearly remember all the hype surrounding the anti-bra movement in the 1970’s, but I cannot actually remember seeing women going braless at all.  Maybe this is simply because I was a child and I wasn’t into the habit of scrutinizing older women’s bodies, or maybe because, as a child, I did not go to places where young women were making their fashion statements.

Fashion designer Yves Saint Laurent contributed to making going braless not just a form of protest but also a fashion trend.  His sheer designs were always modeled by women who wore no undergarments beneath them.  This, too, was a political statement.  Dazed wrote that “the decision was less about pleasing the onlooker, and more about asserting equality between the sexes.”

I don’t believe that bralessness is all about equality.  I believe most women who actually go braless, do so for various practical reasons, including these…

  • To be more comfortable.
  • To make their bodies more accessible to men.
  • To compete with other women.
  • The Feeelz of personal freedom.

Long, Straight Hair (B,C)

I remember this was one of the most beautiful and inspiring things about people’s appearances back in the 60’s to 80’s.  Both men and women parted their hair in the middle, and “feathered” their hair on the sides and back.  Big hair had a heyday with the 1960’s “beehive” hairdo’s, followed by the “flip” in the 1970’s.  But the emphasis on big hair reached its zenith in the 1980’s, and became an icon of the times.  To this day, men still find long hair attractive, and I’m sure they always will.

Subservience (B,D)

“The 1960s might have been a time of change, but ads from the era show that women were still expected to be homemakers and sex objects.”

Men still find sexy maids attractive.  Arnold Schwarzenegger is a conspicuous example, and she wasn’t all that sexy, because subservience alone is usually sufficient.

“In The Feminine Mystique, published in 1963, Betty Friedan summed up the frustration of the generation, writing, “A woman today has been made to feel freakish and alone and guilty if, simply, she wants to be more than her husband’s wife.”

Friedan is describing a healthy guilt for being dissatisfied and ungrateful, but that’s not the husband’s fault.

Sobriety (B)

Still attractive to marriage minded men, but not so much to Players.

Smoking (A)

Back in the 20th century, smoking was a big thing.  Anyone who didn’t smoke was considered square or unsophisticated.  To put this in perspective, in 1960, about 42% of the population smoked.  If you remove children and the elderly from that calculation, that figure jumps to about 80% — 4 out of 5 people — that’s nearly everybody.

But smoking is not what made women attractive, being sophisticated and “hip” is what did it – and back then, this included smoking.  Nowadays, tattoos might be the modern equivalent.  They’re thought to be cool, but that does not necessarily make them attractive.

Unemployment (B)

By the late 1960’s, more women were working than ever.  While they were making great economic strides, working women faced a certain stigma.  It was far more acceptable for single women to work than married women, as a woman’s primary duty was still expected to be to her family.  In 1967, just 44 percent of married American couples lived in dual income households, compared to more than half of married couples today.  Working wives and mothers were thought to destabilize home life and their families.

It’s a luxury for a woman to be unemployed.  It’s a joy for a woman to be busy as a homemaker and raising children.  Too many women have fallen for the lies that claim otherwise.

Leg Makeup (C)

My aunts (from the Silent generation) told me women were doing this as early as the 1940’s.  I suppose body paint would be the modern equivalent.

The article made no mention of how this is attractive to men.  So I’ll point out that the thing that makes this attractive is the artistry and the way it draws attention to the body.

Athletic Skills (B,D)

“Athletic women were “in” at the end of the 1960’s, but not for the reason that you might think.  Athletics were viewed as a way for women to maintain “attractive” figures.  Women became more active in sports in the 1960s, especially in high schools and colleges, although women’s sports were not considered to be on par with men’s sports.”

Being physically fit and active is still attractive to men.

Conclusions

The article is somewhat dishonest, because the headline implies that these things are strange and are no longer attractive to men.  In fact, most of them are still attractive to men.  Nothing has changed except the degree to which women are willing to concede what men prefer.

These days, the standards for women’s personal qualities have gone down so much, that women themselves are no longer attractive to men.

This article is proof that the hamster still dominates women’s concepts of what men find attractive.

Why not cut to the chase and ask a man?

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5 Responses to Things men found attractive 50 years ago are still attractive today.

  1. A lot of women’s research in academia focuses on proving that they are better looking than they look, and that high value men should find them attractive.

    Watch old films on YouTube. Buster Keaton’s female costar in all his 1920s silent movies is beautiful. Fashion only changes preferences at the margins. If Buster Keaton were reanimated today, he’d be shocked at what has happened to women, and probably to men, too.

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    • Jack says:

      A truly attractive woman can wear just about anything and still be attractive. But most women have to be choosy about styles and colors to make the most of what God gave them. Unfortunately, this has become a lost art form.

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  2. Sharkly says:

    When is the last time any man said he wanted a woman who looked like a Feminist?

    Like never! Bwahhh hah ha ha ha ha ha

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  3. larryzb says:

    “These days, the standards for women’s personal qualities have gone down so much, that women themselves are no longer attractive to men.”

    How low do we have to lower the bar to accommodate feminist mental cases?

    “Why not cut to the chase and ask a man?”

    Great point, but feminism is basically telling men how they must think about women.

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  4. lastmod says:

    I can remember…..faintly……my mother still would “be dressed” to go shopping in the 1970’s and into the 1980’s. Not to the “nines” but low heels, hair done just right, hose, always a knee length skirt, makeup applied but never overdone. Basic blouse, a fashionable handbag for the time…..and she was a woman who worked full time after 1974 (out of necessity, more on this in a minute). When we went to local then “new” shopping mall at the time (Mohawk Mall, Schenectady, NY) or to the supermarket or out and about. Station wagon and AM radio days……

    I agree with the post in general…..but again, some are forgetting a wife who works is pretty common today…not because of “feminism” but for the fact that the cost of living for most married couples is almost impossible on a sole income. Yes, I know…men should enter the STEM field, and land a great job at NASA, IBM, GE, or Dow Chemical……but even in those career fields the pay and cost of living won’t cut it.

    Real wages in this country I will remind all again have been declining since 1974.

    Now, you may say “well, less is more” and “live within the husbands means” and I say proud of you if you do have a wife who wants that, but most don’t (Christian or not) live in that reality.

    My mother had to go to work in 1974. The cost of living rose so quickly and escalated throughout the rest of the decade and into the early 1980’s…..when we were hit with another recession. Many women in marriage do work not because of feminism or because they have a career….many do because it’s “pay the mortgage” or “eat” and this is very common in the working class and lower middle class.

    And its very common with folks who maybe were middle class, and the factory closed, hubby is retraining for a new job while working taco bell. Wifey was an LVN Nurse before marriage and now she is working so they don’t lose the house they worked hard for.

    I am not being a jerk here….but most men….Christian or not…live in reality, and the reality for most men in the USA…..your wife is working.

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