Not everyone has an ability to communicate Red Pill truths, except those who have earned the capacity to do so. Those who have made more costly mistakes, suffered more, learned more difficult lessons, and have found more grace, have the unique ability, yes, even the duty, to offer encouragement and insights to others who are suffering in the same manner.
The truths of the Bible which have become hollow in modern times, need to be revisited and revamped. The truth begins nowhere else but inside us.
Over in the comments section on Dalrock’s post, How to spot a faker. (April 3, 2018) we find a lot of men reacting to the implicit treachery in the pulpit by questioning the meaning of it all, and what is actually right. Commenter dvdivx wrote [emphasis mine],
“Look I get the fact that Wilson is serving Satan. Could pick many more pastors putting idols like the vagina before God. Not a shortage. How about someone doing something right. Its like a dead horse. Wilson’s not going to change. His heart has hardened and does not belong to God nor his Son. We get that. How about a post of what is right?”
Easier said than done, and who could do so?
For a man to get on a blog and fully describe in detail what is right, and what really works in a marriage, it is as rare as a show-quality paint job on a junkyard car.
The fact is, most guys who are enjoying a joyful, fruitful marriage would rather be busy with their wives and families, and would not feel compelled to labor long hours writing blog posts about it.
The most intriguing facet concerning the status of being happily married, is that these people are not consciously aware of what it is that they’re doing right. So even if they did comprehend the widespread need of such knowledge, and made a diligent effort to disseminate the same, they would not even know how to describe it in words that a struggling, suffering person could at once grasp and understand.
The only person who is going to be able to offer an expert, detailed, and rationally understandable comparison between Success and Failure is the man who has experienced BOTH worlds, and truly much more of the latter.
“The problem with all this verbal hedgery is that disciples are not pundits. The two populations have entirely different reactions to things written. Pundits will look for logical inconsistencies, mis-steps, etc. Those trying to actually learn something will be much more forgiving on that score, but much more demanding of actual wisdom. How many had to screw up, and how badly, that Heartiste was able to contribute something of value?”
“Every time a pastor hedges to avoid the ire of feminists, a young Christian man discovers the pickup artists. Heaven grant that he doesn’t linger.”
I believe SeriouslyPleaseDropIt is hinting at the dynamic of ministry described in 2nd Corinthians 1:3-7.
3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. 5 For as the sufferings of Christ abound in us, so our consolation also abounds through Christ. 6 Now if we are afflicted, it is for your consolation and salvation, which is effective for enduring the same sufferings which we also suffer. Or if we are comforted, it is for your consolation and salvation. 7 And our hope for you is steadfast, because we know that as you are partakers of the sufferings, so also you will partake of the consolation.
Who are these men who have received ‘consolation’ and ‘comfort’ from God?
Considering how decrepit western society and morality has become, there are a multitude of men out there who have experienced the common hardships associated with the fruit of Feminism. You know them…
- Married men who tolerate a base existence living with an obese termagant for the sake of their children.
- Those frivorced, single fathers, who have to fork over 30% (or more) of their hard-earned dollars to a self-centered witch who betrayed his love and trust.
- Young MGTOW’s who have read the writing on the wall, and dare not risk the hope of having a family.
How many of these men have overcome their mortal wounds and bitterness, and have lived to tell the tale? These are the men who have received ‘consolation’ and ‘comfort’ from God. These are the men who were born to be the new leaders in this dark age.
“In light of the last 3 posts here, not only am I amazed that Christians ever reproduce at all, but I think I get why porn ‘use’ among Christian men is statistically higher than any other demographic of men.”
“What a mind job. I understand sex has always been the thumbscrew of men that the church uses to obligate compliance, but in an age where the Feminine Imperative drives doctrine (and by extension faith) and lays out those obligations it’s become a self-perpetuating form of torture for men. Man up, marry those sluts. If she doesn’t want to fuck you – your fault. You don’t behave in the fem-church approved manner that all your male ‘shepherds’ are explaining to you, which the imperative dictates to them.”
“Turn to porn to find some kind of sexual release because you didn’t do everything right to appease your wife? Your fault, you lustful male.”
“Seriously, what would possibly be viewed as an upside to Christian marriage and sex for a guy? For generations (up to even this one) we get this male shame for having repressed women’s sexual natures for so long. This is women’s go-to gripe with the church, but it’s complete bullshit. It’s men’s sexuality that is repressed and used to fuel the church of the Feminine Imperative.”
There’s a world of hurt out there. That’s for sure. It’s epidemic, it’s mass produced, and it’s perpetuated by the institutions that were put in place for our well-being (e.g. the churches, local governments, courts and legal systems).
That’s the bad news.
But the good news is that all these hurting men are in a prime condition to help and encourage other hurting men.
Why can’t these men extend the same ‘consolation’ and ‘comfort’ to other men who ‘partake of the same sufferings’?
If you’re reading this, and you feel like God is putting his finger on you, saying, “That’s you!”, then whether you believe in God or not, you have received a heavenly calling to reach out to other men.
No, really! Consider it.
Are you an MGTOW with a wad of cash and nothing to do? Do you know a frivorced brother who’s working three jobs until his dying day, just to make his alimony and child support payments, and avoid jail time? Why not help him out with those payments? Even if you just cover one or two of those payments to get him through a pinch, you’ll have a true and loyal friend for life!
That is an eternal reward.
Maybe you don’t have a load of cash, but you’ve got a special skill. A buddy needs a brake job, but lacks the tools and expertise? Invite him over to your garage on a Saturday. Work on his car together. Show him how it’s done, and have a beer and a laugh!
In doing so, you are punching back at the evil forces of this age.
No money, and no skills? No problem. Have a barbecue party, and invite other men from your community, neighborhood, church, or workplace. Go on a hiking/camping trip. Tour the Appalachian Mountains on motorcycle. See the Adirondacks on horseback. Go to the Badlands, Yellowstone, or just your local nature reserve.
Enjoy your lives together with other men. No women are necessary!
Point is, maybe you’ve been cheated by women, by your church, by your employer, by society… but lift your eyes now to the hills (Psalm 121). Every new day brings a new beginning. This is the time for you to shine!
Reach out to those other men in the moments of their greatest distress, men who are in need of your companionship and masculine viewpoints, and your reward in heaven will be great!
Pick up the phone right now and call a buddy. Then get packing!
God bless you!
- Independent (feat. Clare Vooght): Two Friends Walked From Mexico To Canada… (December 19, 2016)