List of Slut Tells

I’m glad to see that sluts are finally coming out of the closet. That is, society is no longer shaming them to the point where they are trying to hide or deny their membership to slutclub international. I’m glad about this, because it becomes all that much easier for men to discern what type of woman they’re dealing with up front, which is very important in deciding which type of relationship to pursue with her, if any at all.

Nevertheless, because of the importance of determining the course of a relationship as early as possible (an unfortunate requirement for one to compete in the modern marketplace), and because all women invariably lie about their N count, it is worth revisiting the observable indicators that a particular woman is a slut.

Women generally have a very complex list of impressionistic slut tells, and although not all of these concepts directly relate to a woman’s actual N count (which is more of what men are interested in knowing), they are nevertheless worth reviewing.

• Chateau Heartiste: It’s easy to identify a Slut (December 28, 2009)
• Chateau Heartiste: Identifying the Sluts: The Science (August 2, 2011)

Heartiste has a couple posts above describing dynamic slut tells, and I think all of them are still current. The problem with dynamic indicators is that you have to invest (or waste, depending on her) at least a little bit of time with her before you can see what kind of woman she is. Sometimes, the amount of time it takes to size a woman up, can cost you the opportunity of starting off on the right foot with her.

If you are a man with a lot of options to filter through, or a man with very little free time on his hands, then it is better to have a list of obvious, physical, and preferably visual indicators.

So here is a list of static slut tells, which you can spot up front, even before you decide how to approach her.

Eds. disclaimer: Just because a woman has one or two of these characteristics, doesn’t necessarily indicate that she is going to spread her wings on the first date with any man in a BMW. (Or maybe she will, who knows?) The value of this list is that if a woman has several of these qualities, she is probably more likely to have a sexually liberated mindset, and indulge in stepping-stone-style hypergamy, than a woman who has fewer of these qualities. The woman’s in-situ behavior will also depend a lot upon the man as well. So consider this information as “Scatterplot Science”.

Slut Tells from Science, Demographics, and Statistics

1. Recreational drug use
2. Fresh out of high school, not married, and not in college.
3. Low socioeconomic class
4. Having the experience of being imprisoned or incarcerated in a detention center
5. Black (sorry to say this)

Sources

1. National Health Statistics Report Number 36: “Sexual Behavior, Sexual Attraction, and Sexual Identity in the United States: Data From the 2006–2008 National Survey of Family Growth”
2. National Health Statistics Report Number 46: “HIV Risk-Related Behaviors in the United States Household Population Aged 15–44 Years: Data from the National Survey of Family Growth, 2002 and 2006–2010”

Slut Tells from the PUA Industry and Conventional Wisdom

1. Slut eye AKA Succubus stare (lots of white showing; indicates an empty heart, emotional immaturity, inclination towards lust and fantasy, impulsiveness) Compare to Sanpaku.
2. 1,000 cock stare (lots of sexual partners does to women, what warfare does to men – emotional fatigue, sublimated angst, low self-esteem, and frustration to the point of derangement)
3. Short hair, especially “nape cuts” (shorter is more slutty, especially when showing the nape of the neck, indicates a masculine aggressiveness, and a certain carelessness about being feminine.
4. Smokes something (shows a disrespect for her body, also an offense against life in general)
5. Tattoos and/or body piercings beyond earrings (simply an abomination to feminine beauty)
6. Razor thin or heavily sculpted eyebrows (indicates she is not well grounded in reality)
7. Frequents bars and clubs (bored, purposeless, seeking stimulation, and attracted to the darker side of life)
8. Wears a lot of gothic style black clothing, e.g. black lipstick, black nail color. (has a fascination with death)
9. Member of a college Sorority or some other good-time-groupie-group. (We all know what Sorority chicks do with Fraternity boys when they get into that social scene.)
10. Hair dyed in spots, streaks or strange colors (this screams “cheap attention whore”)
11. Single mother (with the modern conveniences of birth control, a woman has got to be doing a h*ll of a lot of screwing around, and being really careless about it, for this to happen. Even if she wasn’t, and just got pregnant “on accident”, being an unwed mother will quickly transform her into a sex starved nympho. The reason for this is because having a baby tends to make women more horny, which is another reason why many people prefer to get married before having children.)
12. Divorced within the past two years. (Ever heard this quip? “__ivorced, totally __esperate and looking for the D!”
13. Being single and in her peak libido phase, which typically hits women in their mid 30’s.
14. Overweight but not ugly.
15. The manjaw.
16. A low 2D:4D finger length ratio, i.e. ring finger is longer than index finger. More information from Art of Manliness, Hooking Up Smart, and science.
17. (2017-11-16)* Sexually oriented fashion trends, such as the nipple trend, no matter real or stick-on, and Camel Toe fashion. (Lacking a sense of modesty, and shows that she’ll trade her dignity for attention. It’s almost like an advertisement, saying, “Cum tickle my meat flaps, big boy!”)
18. (2018-1-24)* Has a peer group of slutty friends.
19. (2018-10-12)* Excessively long meat curtains.
20. (2020-12-12)* Has a smart phone with a cracked screen protector.

Interestingly, many of these slut tells are also cues for, or symptoms of, a low SMV, or are descriptors that, if adopted, would significantly lower a woman’s SMV. I believe there might be a causative link for many of these cases.

Take, for example, being overweight. A woman who is grossly overweight offers little sexual satisfaction to the average man, and thus will find it difficult to retain a man’s monogamous commitment. Also, she will only be able to attract the very bottom SMV males, and so her tendencies towards hypergamy will be largely frustrated, making her a more desperate competitor in the SMP.

By contrast, a woman with a high SMV is more likely to have her choice of men, to be able to hold and keep her man’s sexual interest, and to therefore have little motivation to go a man hopping, figuratively, or literally. SMV parity also contributes to this interaction. A high SMV woman would also likely find a man who has a comparatively high SMV, and who therefore has many choices in the way of a partner. If the man has choices, then it would likely lead her to become more invested and more committed to the relationship, in an effort to please him and retain his interest.

I have heard some say that not being a regular churchgoer would make one more likely to be a slut. But I haven’t seen enough evidence to confirm this. I know that most young people who were raised in a Christian home are likely to do their fair share of sexual exploration and hooking up, once they leave the nest and go off to college. If they stop being churchgoers at that point, then that would confirm the hypothesis. I would like to believe that regular churchgoing women who are married are not likely to be sluts, but I have seen evidence to the contrary. In fact, two of the proudest, highest N, sluts that I’ve ever known in my whole life, have been regular churchgoing married women. They would sing in the choir, and then sit in the front pew, and show their legs to the grinning pastor while he was trying to concentrate on his sermon. No one in the church ever chastised these two women or tried to shame them. They just accepted them as they were, mouthing platitudes like, “God forgives the worst of sinners”, and politely ignored all the graphic details that flew around the church in the form of gossip. However, the jilted wives of these women’s wayward partners did not agree with such “holiness”, and rightfully so.

* I will add to this list, if I discover others.