Christian men who are serious about following the advice in the Bible face unfair competition in today’s SMP. From the PUA perspective, all alpha Christian men who follow the Lord’s command to “abstain from fornication” would essentially be relegating themselves to beta status, by refusing all opportunities to get laid outside of marriage. As a consequence, these Christian men lose all those wonderful opportunities to discover, build and refine their ability to create those magical Tingles in a woman, which is something very useful in building contentment within a Christian marriage to a not-so-Christian ex-carousel rider – which is who you will end up with as the beta you chose to become!
Now, I am not making a justification for alpha Christian men to sleep around. I just want to facetiously point out that it is a mistake to think only from the perspectives of this world. It would be ideal if the vast majority of people would see things from God’s point of view, and would follow the Lord’s commands in every part of their lives. If people did so, God would be faithful to His promises, and then our whole society would be closer to the Kingdom of God. But the sorry fact of the matter is that the majority of people in society, both men and women, Christian and agnostic, care more about getting the Tingles, than about building God’s Kingdom. So those Christians who are faithful and obedient to God’s Word are at a stark disadvantage in the world’s system. When more Christians wake up to this fact, and start living their lives according to God’s word, then they will all experience a little less of that disadvantage. We could also say it’s the old “united we stand, divided we fall” idea.
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